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[DNTWNT]

im doing everything i can, what can i do just say im moving back in weather you like it or not? wouldnt that make the sitchuation worse?

[Cadet]

im doing everything i can, what can i do just say im moving back in weather you like it or not? wouldnt that make the sitchuation worse?

The situation is already worse.

Sorry, have you spoken to a lawyer?

Are you getting to see you 4 year old or have you abandoned her too?

[DNTWNT]

yes i still see her quite often and over nights

[Cadet]

So how can you be the BEST DAD possible?

That is quite attractive.

[DNTWNT]

i just want my family back, in counciling she said she wants to work on the marriage but it doesnt seem like its what she wants when she wont even talk with me. confused

[Azzork]

But WHY did you move out? Because she asked you to?
She can't force you out. If she wants to go, let her leave! If that's not a fight you want to have, then so be it. But you aren't going to nice your way back.


As for now, what are your goals? What are you working on?

[DNTWNT]

working on bettering myself, counciling/alot of reading and being a good dad of couse, just trying to better myself and work on my flaws

[Azzork]

working on bettering myself

Come on. You can do better than that.
What are you actually DOING?

[DNTWNT]

i am bettering my self and taking this as a life lesson

[ILYNOT]

Post details of how you are bettering yourself.

I would really move back in the house the longer you wait the harder it may be, it can be used as YOU left which you did...

Set boundaries, she is talking to another man and kicks you out of YOUR house, go back home and tell her that you are not going anywhere that this is your house too, but don't do anything you will later regret.