Eirinn, please don't worry about whining, we are here to support you! Especially if you feel like you have to keep up the PMA in front of H all the time - you need somewhere to release, so please, do keep posting here and we will do all we can to help.
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Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.
Something that I'm having a hard time with is that most of my friends are telling me to kick my H out of the house. That living in limbo isn't right. I know Michelle talks about this in her book. I feel like as long as he is still living with us there is more hope. Right?
M 46 / H 43 T 24/M 18 S 4 11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY 1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom 1/8/2016 H moved out
Something that I'm having a hard time with is that most of my friends are telling me to kick my H out of the house. That living in limbo isn't right. I know Michelle talks about this in her book. I feel like as long as he is still living with us there is more hope. Right?
Yes, it's really common I think. Your friends see you in pain and they want you out of it.
Most of my friends have also told me to kick H out, "D the @*$(�$&", etc.
At the end of the day though you need to do what's right for you. It's your M, not your friends'.
What do you want, E?
Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.
I want my husband and BF back happy. Someone told me I would know when it was time to tell him to go. But I don't feel that yet. Most days, I do great. It's just that moment before I go to sleep that I waver.
M 46 / H 43 T 24/M 18 S 4 11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY 1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom 1/8/2016 H moved out
Hugs. It's hard, I think we all have our times of day where it's hardest and PMA takes the biggest hit. For me, it's usually morning. Keep going Eirinn, I know it's hard but I do think it will get easier over time. Make sure you keep going out and GAL-ing and doing stuff for you. What are you doing this weekend?
Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.
My family was around all week for a visit. They went home today. I went out and spent the morning with a friend, and then came home. My H went out snowshoeing. Not sure what tomorrow will bring. We added an entire floor to our dream house this past summer and I'm moving into the master suite tomorrow. My H is sleeping in the guest room. I normally take a class on Sunday night, but it was cancelled this week. Might head to my room early after my son is asleep and read book 2 in the Outlander series.
What are you doing Susan?
M 46 / H 43 T 24/M 18 S 4 11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY 1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom 1/8/2016 H moved out
I went shopping today and got a new dress, top, underwear and some jewelery. Tomorrow my friend is hosting a brunch - expect it will be fun and probably also end up lasting well into late afternoon. Hope you find something fun to do tomorrow!
Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.
Okay, so I moved into the master suite today, and I'm putting up a picture display that my sister in law gave me. My question is, Is it okay to include a wedding picture in the collection or should I not include any pictures of my H?
M 46 / H 43 T 24/M 18 S 4 11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY 1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom 1/8/2016 H moved out
