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Today is my 25th anniversary. I fully expect us both to go through the entire day without mentioning it to each other. I'm not sure I'll even see or talk to him today. I have lunch with a friend scheduled and the the girls and I have a dinner planned. Just another day.



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(((Rpp)))
Treat yourself kindly today.


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Whoa! H just texted me happy anniversary. Not a dozen roses but an acknowledgment. More than I was expecting.



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Does one say congrats in these sorts of circumstances? I just don't know what the protocol is here wink

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I think the protocol is to welcome me to crazy town.



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You are very welcome indeed! Enjoy the day RPP. Who knows what is ahead...


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Hugs to you, rpp. Anniversaries in limbo are weird. I hope you can take sometime to celebrate yourself -- your strength of character, your awesomeness. Make the day about you! Hugs!


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Hi Rppfl, not sure what to say, at least he remembered.

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Hi RPP - that's nice that he did text. I guess he may feel it's hard to know what to do. Are you going to reply? Maybe a simple - Thanks H, and the same to you....or similar?


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I did reply (took me about 45 minutes, not necessarily intentionaly). Short and simple, just like his. He didn't go on to suggest a romantic dinner. Not to me, anyway. wink



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