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Aaand that was dinner, full of pizza now need a lie down carb overload!

Nothing from w and as mentioned I'm staying dark unless she contacts me. Not sure what's up, concerned but I know she knows anything I can help with she can call and hasn't sooooo ...reasons.

Anyhoo chill out time,am I doing the right thing, is this just being detached or should I be more concerned? I'd have been out of my mind 6 months ago, strangely calm tonight,odd...

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Hi edz. Back to my previous refrain about the pub.

It could be anything and not worth worrying about at the moment. It could easily be something really boring and mundane. Your w knows youre there for her, beyond that there isn't much else you can do - its not your sandbox.

So I'd say your doing the right thing by just chilling out (under the throw?). Calm is good

Chicken curry for me tonight - just waiting on rice


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Hi Edz, I'll use V's phrase again, because I really like it - best not to worry about that, no doubt things will unravel in time....or words to that effect.

Who knows Edz? You offered help and a listening ear, and that's all you can really do now. Might FB have any relation to 'thing?"

I would say, relax and enjoy your evening, and think of some nice (cheap, due to C tax bill) GAL activities for the weekend. BTW, reading your interaction with your W about the C tax bill, you sounded quite apologetic for even broaching it. But, your W has made choices that have consequences, and this is one. Are you being a little too helpful, do you think?


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Hi guys

No throw yet turned on (pauses for dramatic effect) the heating this evening as I was cold.

Mm chicken curry had that last night!

Thanks toots, honestly no idea had a peek at her public timeline (no access to her private one obviously) nothing obvious. Could be connected nothing that I've seen on thing since it cropped up but who knows?

This weekend s and I will be...ready.??

Baking, were going to make some brownies and well go buy a fish since w insisted on the tank coming here from the garage.

I dont know toots, I might be. These are indeed her decisions but she seems to act like everythings against her, I just don't understand what else she's expecting to happen? Keep assuming its me not understanding maybe it isn't..


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Mmmm pub ....Jim, you need to head to the south coast, you too toots and v if you're about!


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Me and toots are both in the Midlands, you need to head up t'north. Said with marvellous fake northern accent.

Its a difficult balance for you because on the one hand I feel like you need to be a safe harbour (back to nautical metaphor) and on the other you need to sort this stuff. I don't think apologetic is the right tone but then neither is confrontational

Hmmmmm......thinking......


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Ya'll need to head down to London I say!


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You and gg coming g?
I'd need to head UP to London though wink


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March 5-15! Just me though.


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Mmmm interesting guys do we have the basis of a get together going on here and will we get in bother with the mods?


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