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Thanks for the update. I'm always keen to know what's happening with you. I hope things are getting a little better overall.


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"You can't start a fire sitting around, crying over a broken heart" - Bruce Springsteen.
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Hiya little

So what else you been up to of late?


M:44, W:46, S:10
M 13 years, T 15
BD:23/7/2014
W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014
My new place: 21/11/2014
W/S back to flat 22/11/2014
W coming closer, talking 4/2015
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Little

Here is a budget site I recommend to my clients. It is free stuff and explains very well with access to resources. I consider it well written, but I apologise if you already know this stuff. Plenty of GAL points for this!

http://christianpf.com/how-to-make-a-budget/

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(((Little)))

I know how you feel about crying and just kind of feeling lost. My IC tells me that crying is good and it is healing. I responded that I should be the healthiest, sanest person on the planet if that is the case, because I cry quite frequently.

Hang in there!


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Bomb drop 9/29/2014
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
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I want to get my feelings out by writing them down, but I just can't do it. Thoughts flit through my head and yet every time I sit down I can't write them out. smirk


ME: 38
BF: 40
T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice)
BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R.
10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW
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Yeah, I didn't write much at the beginning, I felt silly.

I didn't know who to out my pov out there and try and explain my things my way. I was too raw too jumpy.

But mostly we have all Been there and few will beat you up.


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Hi Little. How are you doing anyway?

I've written LOADS and it really helped me order my thoughts, but i'm not sure it helped me to detach or dwell

If you have windows 7 (or maybe later) it has a voice to text function so you could try just setting that going and talking at your computer for a bit - plus you'll get the entertainment of the random misinterpretation that the software does.


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Let it rest a while, I believe the jumble will settle and the thoughts will flow.

Give yourself a well earned respite and relax. Our little will find her writing voice, it is not lost only temporarily mislaid.

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ME: 38
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T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice)
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10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW
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So your not dead either!

The flue has tryed to claim me, but so far I'm wining just.snifs grin


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T 11y
Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads!
Ms 18 hs 26
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