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100% drama free. I expect more of the same in the near future.
The more I detach and GAL the more I learn how to handle the spew. The better I handle the spew the easier it is to detach.


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Originally Posted By: bdub
100% drama free. I expect more of the same in the near future.
The more I detach and GAL the more I learn how to handle the spew. The better I handle the spew the easier it is to detach.


Go visit HP, would you? wink



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It's funny that we are talking about NC and drama stuff right now because in the last 45 minutes WAW and I have exchanged 19 tm. So much for NC lol.
However, I have learned that dissolution is almost done and if what she says is true, its signable. The boys are going to the house to get their winter clothes so they can be outside on this snow day. WAW is going to loan me our carpet cleaner AND the shampoo for it so I can clean the bedroom carpet AND shes going to deliver it when she gets the boys snow clothes.
Happy new years to me?
Contact, but no drama. Vanilla would give me points for that, right?


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Originally Posted By: bdub
Contact, but no drama. Vanilla would give me points for that, right?


Vanilla is pretty generous with her points, I'm sure you get something for that.

And how are you doing today?



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Doing well today rpp. The boys only had 1 day of school this week thanks to arctic temperatures, 6 inches of snow, and 25 mph winds. I was off work Thursday so we got to spend the entire day together. I played chef and stepped way out of my comfort zone and prepared 2 actual meals. Not just PB&J or chicken nuggets.


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bdub, I think we must be in the same state, given your support of Buckeyes and also the number of snow days endured this past week. I too am on the path to dissolution (meeting to hash out proposal with L this Tuesday) and am eager to move it forward quickly (but also nervous about the process). I hope yours goes smoothly -- stay warm!


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I played chef and stepped way out of my comfort zone and prepared 2 actual meals. Not just PB&J or chicken nuggets.


Did you see our discussion of men in the kitchen from Maybell's thread the other day? You are on the right track here.



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Are you staying warm?

Those ice storms are the worst.


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We have not lost power yet and I think the worst of it is over regarding the ice. Luckily no wind this time. 7 years ago we went 6 days with no power. It felt like little house on the prarie. I carried water out of the creek to water my cattle in the barn 3 times a day.
Labug I am plenty warm today, its all the way up to 34 now. Heat wave!


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Ahoy,
Our sitchs are VERY similar except my WAW stayed at home until October. I got another revision of my dissolution Friday. I have been over it and I only have an issue with one clause. WAW text me this morning and I told her about it. She is ok with the change I want to make. We are at warp speed to get the attorney to make the change today so we can sign and she can file today. She also benefits from snow days ;-)

I hate the thought of this being final, but I am getting very anxious to get the agreement signed and finalized. She started changing things and it looked for a while like we were going to go through a full D. In fact, I had an attorney draw up the papers so they could be filed immediately if I felt she was going to back out of the dissolution all together.


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