Cadet, Very Good Question. I guess I don't know it for sure. The only thing I have is her words and a slightly better "energy" at home. She has agreed to go back to couples counseling. We went for a few weeks in November and December but her ambivalence and lying to the therapist made it a useless exercise.
Like Ahoy said, her actions certainly don't match her words. They don't really contradict them either. She's just there. Not making things worse and not making things better. The only time we talk about our situation is when I bring it up, but I am done bringing it up.
