He is coming over today. I originally invited him for dinner because it's our tradition to eat black eyed peas on New Years. He accepted and then later offered to smoke ribs, which we often do on New Years Day. It's an all day process so he was on his way here and I hadn't been in the shower yet. I texted him to please let himself in (he usually knocks) because the kids were asleep and I was heading to the shower. His flirty reply had to do with my needing his assistance in the shower.
H and D12 just left a bit ago. He was here all day and there was no follow up to the flirty text. It was a fine day and there was nothing remotely out of line. All kiddos were home all day, total family time. It was comfortable.
It would be really easy to take him back. And it would be a mistake. And as it happens, he's not asking.
I love the way you talk these things out with yourself.
Today is a new day, tomorrow will be a new day...
Stay in the now, as you're doing.
Today is a great day. I am happy that we have made it through the holidays without any drama. Yesterday SIL asked me if H was still seeing the duck. Truth is, it doesn't matter that much right now. As long as H keeps the duck away from my kids he's free to do what he wants.
My birthday is next week and tonight we are having my family birthday dinner at a restaurant out on SoBe. It will be nice.
Things no doubt will be different in the weeks coming up. No holiday reasons to get together. Time for me to really figure some things out while I have the space.
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