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Originally Posted By: GoatGal
Wonky,

<<<<< It's the Avatars next to our user names.
Mine is a smiley, but yours is a sad, gray ghosty face.

It can't be # of posts...thoughts?



Nope. Grey means we're not logged on and a smiley means someone's logged on. Or posted recently. cool smile

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Originally Posted By: wonka
I'm starting to think that Jim has H figured out pretty well.



We can test that through GGGs experiments, actually write a playbook smile

I think its more I'm figuring myself out and from the way H is described I find myself reading a lot across. Now if only I could apply it usefully......


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Oh WOW! I came on over here after reading your posts on Card's thread, GGG. So much about what you have written lately speaks to me. I too am questioning how to balance detachment with retaining feelings of love. Already forgiven H. Bingo! And the things you say about porn? Much of that feels true as well, though it was not acknowledged as an issue before BD. I still don't really have a handle on what I am dealing with but it does seem to be a personal crisis on behalf of H.

Anyway, just wanted to say thanks for articulating some of the things that have been floating around my head lately. And special thanks for speaking so openly about your experiences with porn. I think that resonates with a lot of people on here.


H 37 Me 36
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Married 5 years
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