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It like we are twin sons from different mothers


Me: 55, W: 46
T: 17 M: 15
S: 10
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25 23 21
Unhappy 10/12
Asked to move out 1/14
NILWY 2/14
Sep rooms: 1/14
BD 3/14
W filed 5/14
Trial 12/14


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Leave her in God's hands. Perfect


M 54
W 48
T 19
M 17
D 12
Twin S 6
Twin S 6
Ilybnilwy 1/26/14
A discovered 2/3/14
D filed 7/25/14
Sumons served 8/14/14

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Amen brother


Me: 55, W: 46
T: 17 M: 15
S: 10
3 S prev M
25 23 21
Unhappy 10/12
Asked to move out 1/14
NILWY 2/14
Sep rooms: 1/14
BD 3/14
W filed 5/14
Trial 12/14


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They don't know themselves. That's the fog. Hopefully fog will lift soon


M 54
W 48
T 19
M 17
D 12
Twin S 6
Twin S 6
Ilybnilwy 1/26/14
A discovered 2/3/14
D filed 7/25/14
Sumons served 8/14/14

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My faith isn't to judge anyone's actions it helps me to accept the actions of others. The strength to continue doing what is right when I feel like giving up. I agree that using religion to guilt our spouse back will never work and if it did it would not work long term.

I like this thread, the people and comments here.

Let's work together on ourselves to continue becoming the spouse only a fool would leave.


Me: 55, W: 46
T: 17 M: 15
S: 10
3 S prev M
25 23 21
Unhappy 10/12
Asked to move out 1/14
NILWY 2/14
Sep rooms: 1/14
BD 3/14
W filed 5/14
Trial 12/14


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God bless you guys. This is the most difficult thing I've ever gone through. I'm sure it is for you guys, too.


M 16 T 17
W moved in w/ AP (OW) 5/14
ILYBNIL 5/14
A discovered 6/14
D papers served via USPS 8/14
Filed my response 9/14
D final 5/15...
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Good job staying strong. What else have you been doing to regain YOU?


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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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Hi all I interviewed a LF today to take my part time book keeper position previously held by Waw. We went to resteraunt cross street from office. I hv known her for 5 yrs she works at resteraunt I frequent.W calls me while in
Interview I txt in meeting. She calls again I txt samething. Anyway D12 then calls me while at interview. Then W gets on phone here's LF in background, I talk to W tell her in meeting which was true. Get home and W gives me Harry I ball doesn't say a word. I didn t say a word either she takes kids to vball. You know I am DB ING but GAL at same time. I don't think at this point W knows I am moving forward.


M 54
W 48
T 19
M 17
D 12
Twin S 6
Twin S 6
Ilybnilwy 1/26/14
A discovered 2/3/14
D filed 7/25/14
Sumons served 8/14/14

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Maybe it's a good thing she thinks I am moving on.


M 54
W 48
T 19
M 17
D 12
Twin S 6
Twin S 6
Ilybnilwy 1/26/14
A discovered 2/3/14
D filed 7/25/14
Sumons served 8/14/14

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Interesting. Why would she care? She's the one who filed. This craziness is so frustrating! My WW treats me like I'm the one having an affair! I mean, come on! If you're going to have an affair and file for divorce, at least have a little sympathy for the person whose heart you've ripped out and stomped on!


M 16 T 17
W moved in w/ AP (OW) 5/14
ILYBNIL 5/14
A discovered 6/14
D papers served via USPS 8/14
Filed my response 9/14
D final 5/15...
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