my w called me today to touch base on some work stuff. I asked her if she had plans for weekend. She said nothing planned. I asked if she was ok with me going out of town tomorrow night back on Saturday eve. she was ok with it. didn't tell her where or with who. then I asked her how she would feel about taking kids for an overnight on sat or sunday some where. I liked the approach on how she would feel about it. 180 for sure on my part. I know the kids are hurting rt now from her lack of connection, they are starving for attention. anyway she is going to get back w me on that one. trying to act as if all is good in my world. <its a tough acting job> anyway going to contact my L tomorrow and see what and how to respond to Summons. I know w will ask me sometime soon to talk about it. I will be polite but decline to get into anything at this point. a 60-90 day period before a meeting of some sort with a mediator. I have some time so need to use it wisely.
M 54 W 48 T 19 M 17 D 12 Twin S 6 Twin S 6 Ilybnilwy 1/26/14 A discovered 2/3/14 D filed 7/25/14 Sumons served 8/14/14
Good job with the GAL this weekend. Did I read it right and you asked her if she wanted to do something with all of you when you got back?
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16
I did do that. Kids have long weekend. I asked her how she would feel about that. We have been doing dinners with kids etc. No pressure just get kids and us away. She called back and said 12d has pool party sleep over so that kills that no biggie in my book. Mr Bond might have another view. What do u think pilot.
M 54 W 48 T 19 M 17 D 12 Twin S 6 Twin S 6 Ilybnilwy 1/26/14 A discovered 2/3/14 D filed 7/25/14 Sumons served 8/14/14
If it kills it it kills it. No point in trying too hard to make something happen. Save it for another time.
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16
My thoughts exactly. Putting kids 1st. Asked how her feelings were on it. All good, heading to parent teacher stuff tonight with her. One of twins is having issues, 2 behavior time outs. Wife got real angry said she was going to straighten teacher out. I let her vent. Suggested we let teacher tell us what's going on before we jump to conclusion s.
M 54 W 48 T 19 M 17 D 12 Twin S 6 Twin S 6 Ilybnilwy 1/26/14 A discovered 2/3/14 D filed 7/25/14 Sumons served 8/14/14
If your 6 year olds are anything like my 5 then they are noticing family problems
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16
Pilot, No question about it. Twin boys are starving for her attention. One of boys just ignores her when she tries to hug him. If she gets her D and gets apt.closer to work her idea was me to stay in home till schools out. I think she will be in for a serious difficult time thinking kids will be ok moving in with her in june. Just my thoughts. I need to keep working on me. Hoping she will do the same. Time will tell. Plento of patience needed. I am like you have plenty of one.praying for the other.
M 54 W 48 T 19 M 17 D 12 Twin S 6 Twin S 6 Ilybnilwy 1/26/14 A discovered 2/3/14 D filed 7/25/14 Sumons served 8/14/14
Interesting night. My w and I went to kids open house at there christian school. Twins teacher is married to a pastor, her son is a pastor, she was telling us parents how important it was for parents to be good christian role models etc,, etc,,,. I could tell w was uncomfortable hearing all this. Principal introduced herself to all parents then said a prayer for parents. Wife and I ran into our churches kids jr.pastor and his wife, this lady was one of my wife's good freinds at church and has avoided her like the plague. They wanted to invite our D12 to a teen cookout next sunday. Anyway I think my w was waiting for me to rag on her about being a hypicrit etc,, never brought it up kept conversation light and about kids. Taking off tomorrow night till sat. Night. All I can be is best me . I can't do any better then that.
M 54 W 48 T 19 M 17 D 12 Twin S 6 Twin S 6 Ilybnilwy 1/26/14 A discovered 2/3/14 D filed 7/25/14 Sumons served 8/14/14
God was working for me tonight. I never had to do a thing. Wife was Luke warm. Still giving me cold shoulder. The pastors and teachers were every where she turned. A little religion can't hurt that's for sure.
M 54 W 48 T 19 M 17 D 12 Twin S 6 Twin S 6 Ilybnilwy 1/26/14 A discovered 2/3/14 D filed 7/25/14 Sumons served 8/14/14
