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BTW, your W didn't go through a midlife crisis.


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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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Problems where. I had to much pride to sell house short sale way. We worked opposite shifts. Had to have her work a full time job while going to school full time. Never showed that much affection towards her. Like dates and cuddling. Did not appreciate her as much as I should have. Focused all my attention on kids and job and none on her. Plus talking got to be yelling.


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Welcome aboard. We would like to help, but it's discouraging if you don't come back to post. You really need to buckle down and finish reading that book.

Stop pursuing your W.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
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I guess the board isn't posting because I have. So what your saying is stop saying the nice stuff to her again?


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My wife is giving the gift of some time right now and I would really like to use it!


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Sandi I love your rules. It's a great guide. My question is do I stop commenting on her looks even though that was one of my big down falls.

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Signed up for my meeting on Friday. Kind of exciting! Don't talk much about it.


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Have a meeting with wife tonight to split up stuff. How to act is the question.


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6/15 divorced
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Talking with coach in the a.m. Wish me luck! Hopefully some good advise will come out of it!


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Bomb 1/14
EA/PA OM 1/14 still going
Served 2/14/14
Separated 3/14
D paused 6/14
6/15 divorced
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Coaching meeting went great!


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Bomb 1/14
EA/PA OM 1/14 still going
Served 2/14/14
Separated 3/14
D paused 6/14
6/15 divorced
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