Well I was fired today and for the first time I dont feel sad about it, the reasons to fire me: You are very serious, you dont joke and even if we think you are a great great server, you are older than your coworkers and they dont feel they can hang out with you due to the age difference, also your pronuntiation in english is strong ....
Definetly God its giving me signs hehehe and its time to listen to them, may 15th its the day!! I havent been so excited and happy in a long time hehehe.
I have a question: should I tell my W i am leaving jn case she wants to have the cat?
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
I have a question: should I tell my W i am leaving jn case she wants to have the cat?
When you know for sure you are leaving then IMO, yes I would send her a quick text to let her know that you are leaving and to see if she wants the cat. The message should be short and to the point. No long stories, no small talk..nada..just to the point.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
Tomorrow I am taking the day off , then I will aplly for jobs during the week to start working and save $2000 dollars more so I can leave with $4000 in my pocket.
I also will put everything for sale, furniture, videogames,tv and material things that I dont need.
This week I am also calling the college in Hawaii to see the requirements, also I am talking to see my options with the greencard if I move to Hawaii, I found a few apartments there and I really dont know how hard will be to get a job there but I will try...
Those are my plans, also I understand what you say about letting her know and I will post here before anything.
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
Hi Ye, you contacted me through another thread. Did you have a specific question for me. You said you were confused by the actions of your WAW. Is it b/c she has not contacted you?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
Yes, the whole situation was weird for me and her not contacting, not telling me her new address and not even her family...
Is that a normal WAW behaviour or this is new grade of WAW?
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
I am anxious today!! I am back today to think why she hasn't contact me at all, puff I am starting a new job I found yesterday this friday, to save some money to leave for Hawaii, I am today scared that I will not be able to forget and move on about how she didnt even contact me
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
I just dont want always to think about the same song, somedays I dont think about it and another days like today, all that I think its why she doesnt contact at all.
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
Just think about what your goals are for you in Hawaii. I do better if there is a task at hand or I am doing GAL things. When everything is quiet and I am alone, no kids, my mind begins to wander. Watch a movie, listen to music, day dream, whatever you can to focus on anything other than the WAW.
It looks like you are starting to plan on a big new adventure.
M:34 XW:34 Together: 10y Living: 9y Married: 7y Son:6 Son:4 Separated: 12/28/13 Piecing: 5/2/14 Separated 2nd: 10/16/14 W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14 papers served: 1/27/15 D final: 3/6/15
Thank you Go!! I bought the ticket today and its amazing how all my friends and family agreed that this is the change I need, it feels great to have that support and it helps to leave doubts behind!! Its gonna be a journey of working on myself and find my real me!
I am excited today and happy that I am leaving all this behind, this friday I will start my new job and see how much I can save to move there, I cant wait to leave!
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
and for the first time I dont feel sad about it, the reasons to fire me: