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Re: Take Two ...
Train #2442287 04/01/14 01:16 AM
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I wanna be Plan A, dammit.

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2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart
Piecing: April 2014
Re: Take Two ...
Train #2442292 04/01/14 01:30 AM
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I wanna be Plan A, dammit.



Good! So did I. To be honest, I really don't understand anyone who settles for anything less than that.


Starsky

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BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)
Re: Take Two ...
Starsky309 #2442294 04/01/14 01:44 AM
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So, riddle me this (from the post before that one):

Why does he pursue me when I withhold sex ... but he pursues HER when she puts out???

I need to understand the male psyche on that. Or is that only something a CHEATING male could answer?

M: 40 H: 44
Married 14 years
S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M
2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart
Piecing: April 2014
Re: Take Two ...
Train #2442383 04/01/14 01:48 PM
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That jacka$s friended me on Facebook (which he hated and never used pre-BD) on Sunday, when he was being nice, and last night changed his marital status to "separated."

OUCH!!!!!!!!!!

M: 40 H: 44
Married 14 years
S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M
2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart
Piecing: April 2014
Re: Take Two ...
Train #2442384 04/01/14 01:49 PM
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Be the water, Train. Be the water. Be the water.

(Y'all know it's bad when I start posting back to MYSELF.)

M: 40 H: 44
Married 14 years
S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M
2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart
Piecing: April 2014
Re: Take Two ...
Train #2442390 04/01/14 02:08 PM
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Block him, do not allow him do control you!

Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction
Re: Take Two ...
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BLOCK HIM.

M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)
Re: Take Two ...
twinmom #2442396 04/01/14 02:18 PM
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Well, this serves as a good (and fast) lesson for me; you can rest assured my guard won't be dropping again any time soon.

I don't think I'll block him just yet. I'll exercise some self-control and just elect to not receive notifications from him. And then, in my own time, I'll use our new social-media "friendship" as the tool it CAN be ... for ME.

That knife can cut both ways.

M: 40 H: 44
Married 14 years
S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M
2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart
Piecing: April 2014
Re: Take Two ...
Train #2442397 04/01/14 02:19 PM
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If it becomes a source of heartache because I just can't stop myself from looking, I'll most definitely block him.

M: 40 H: 44
Married 14 years
S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M
2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart
Piecing: April 2014
Re: Take Two ...
Train #2442398 04/01/14 02:21 PM
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Crap. Maybe y'all are right. I don't wanna get down in that muck. BUT, if I do it now, I think it'll look reactive.

M: 40 H: 44
Married 14 years
S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M
2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart
Piecing: April 2014
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