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Originally Posted By: JonF
I think for you to start your four weeks on a text like that is a great parting gift/note. Right now you don't have an R problem, you have a wife-trapped-in-her-own-head problem.


Thanks!

Another step completed! Another step closer!

-PM


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Holy guacamole. I had to resist every animal instinct and urge to turn down the most beautiful woman in the world today. She more than threw herself at me. She loaded herself up in a cannon and shot herself at me.

Whoa.

As much as I wanted to - and boy, did I want to - I cannot believe I got out of there without taking care of b'niss.

I'm good (as in, I'm okay). I think she understands that the reason we didn't do anything was because I am on a mission - WE'RE on a mission. I don't think she was offended, but maybe she realized that I'm serious about what needs to happen for us to move forward.

Whew.

Time for a cold shower.

-PM


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Wow PM. this is crazy, I'm glad your being cautious here. I think it's the right thing to do. I'm so glad things are moving in a positive direction.

Just curious, How long have you been divorced?


Me: 39 W: 33
M: 9 years
T: 10 years
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Check my sig. wink

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Cold shower PM? or a tub full of ice?

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Wow, things are kinda crazy right now. I'm swamped at work, but will update things with a new thread at some point.

-PM


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