We've had 2 counseling sessions....they went very well. My wife and I both agree this is a process and one we are glad to have a 3rd party.
We both know we have some things to work on and after 20 years, to do some things different now than what we've done before. I know that sounds obvious, but it was helpful.
We are both doing what we can to grow. I'll keep you all posted.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14
That's very good and I'm glad it's working out. It especially helps when you find a C that your W is comfortable with. I hope you continue with your own personal changes though and not just the ones that involve your W. If not, you'll be in the exact same position you were in when you first started.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
