are you really? lol. I'm looking for a sexy man at the mo lol. Well actually I think I've found him, but it's a pity he's not interested!
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
My D turned 17 on 12/23 and exw turned 50 today. When I turned 50 last year I felt really crappy specially after this mess. Hope she is having a good birthday. Time flies
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
Hopefully you'll have a better birthday this year or should that be next year
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Lmao tty180 it took me a couple of days to catch on. Yes next year hahahaha very funny. The old timers here know I'm a lil lost and things just go over my head
Bugsy my D seems to be adjusting. The school issue is still an issue.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
GM Complaining, bitching and getting angry about my Ds academics got me here. Yes, I was not involved in her school. I thought exw had it covered. She works from home. I commuted 2 hrs each day each way. That was the deal. We moved to where we were so we could pay the house off and exw could follow her dreams and care for D. I didn't know my D was not attending school. I didn't know the school was concerned about her. I didn't know exw had meetings and discussions about the school concerns. I didn't know exw was given a plan, I didn't know she wasn't going to school or failing most classes. I was not told if my Ds difficulties until June of 2011. Two weeks after school was over. I didn't know exw was brought to truancy court. I knew none of this until after the divorce. I screwed up. I trusted her mother to do the right thing. I was wrong some mothers don't care. My D is doing the 9th grade a 3rd time. She has missed 35 days this year. She has missed more days than allowed. I tried to get her classified but she's way to bright. Psychiatrist said she's good. I had her accepted to an alternative school with modified hours. The problem, they can't teach her of she doesn't go. Her mother thinks it's ok. Not sure why since she is very educated herself.
The day I found out that D was failing many classes and not going to school I threatened exw to burie her head into the wall.
Here I am wondering what else I could have done.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
I agree with GM I don't think you screwed up at all, your W had not told you of anything that has been going on.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
lol. Well actually I think I've found him, but it's a pity he's not interested!