Exw has been packing like crazy. She is supposed to move out today. Can't help but to feel very sad. All kinds of emotions going through my head. This morning while getting ready for work exw asked if I could disconnect the washer. I said 'I thought you had a moving company"?. Her response "I don't want them to break the hoses". So I did it she thanked me. She was hovering all over the kitchen at one point she even bent over near me? I saw her just looking at me. I imagine she is sad also. So weird. Going home is gonna be hard tonite. She took all the lamps and every painting and picture you could imagine. She is an artist and has great taste. I just left for work and said nothing. There is nothing to say I wished her luck last week. I guess is going to take a while to get adjusted to this. I know I won't be alone but I guess feeling lonely will happen.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
I'm so sorry. Maybe it's time for a "remake" choose some pictures you like and hang them up, rearrange things how you want them etc.
((( )))
M: 29, H: 31 D: 9 S: 8 T: 13 Y M: 9 Y ILYBIDKIILWY 12/09/2012 ~~~~ Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its troubles. ~~~ it Emptys today of its strengths
Hope today goes ok (as good as that could be). Allow yourself to grieve - it all takes time. But you will have a fresh start. You will make your home "yours" again and you will begin to rebuild.
Go easy on yourself. You won't regret being nice and doing those little things.
Naked Carmen Electra pics say u G? I will take your advice. Looks like exw staying a bit longer. She took a book self that we agreed would stay. I said I want it back. She said I kept almost everything and called me petty, told her we agreed and she screamed at me. But she accused me of being verbally abusive which i was. Only when she started it. I am remembering so many things. Me I m laid back till you push my buttons over and over than the Sicilian side takes over. So I will remain calm and maiture e till she pisses me off. Hopefully she will be gone tomorrow
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
She is still here. Says packing and moving is too much work. I dunno? I should help by throwing her sh!t out the window. But that would be childish. Just fantasizing ok so don't worry I'm not that nutty. Uggggg
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
Call the moving place and get her rear out! Too much work...boo hoo. So very lame. She wanted this. The divorce is done and she shouldn't be living there anymore.
If all else fails, you can let ehr know that your local law enforcement would be happy to assist her out of your home.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
