New to 180.. Any advice to make it work?

[rubysgem]

so over the weekend I had a blind date that I canceled and forgot all about. my husband did not. he keeps trying to get information from me about it. Said he will just use his imagination then. he was annoyed it seemed that he might be jealous. i asked what was bothering him and he said when he knows he will tell me. I am in way less contact than I was before. this is being noticed and commented on. he seems to think it has to do with the date, but I never went on it. What do I do? I am so tired of limbo. I can't get thru, no one can. He hints there will be a time when he comes home but if you ask more about that he makes it seem impossible. Like he wants to know the door is open but at the same time refuses to use it.