Economic mediation is done. I get no alimony and she gets no child support. My D because of age decides where to stay. I keep the house she has a tentative move out date of 8/31. Next court date some time in August for the actual divorce. 15 minutes they said. I guess it went well but still feel sad?
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
(((Rick1963))) you have a good attitude and you're a great guy. Some things just make no sense.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
I have not posted in a while but am now caught up with your sitch and I am so sorry about how things are turning out. None of this makes any sense and who knows if it ever will.
All I can say right now is that your W is a fool.
We are here to listen if you feel like posting can help you process your feelings better at this time...
(((hugs)))
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D
hi rick - just stopped by to say i'm sorry and i really hope that you are doing okay and then slowly better and better than okay until you get to great.
big hug
zig
me 46 H 38 M10yrs T 11 S10 BD ow 8/11 h filed 9/25/12
"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"
I'm doing ok Zig and KG. I am supposed to get ExW of my cell phone plan and ezpass by 8/1 as agreed last week. Not sure what is stopping me. The land line phones were not working. So I change all the batteries and were now functioning. But I'm planning on cancelling that also once she moves out. Don't really need it since I use my cell for everything. I also have to cancel her email account. I'm thinking of sending her an email giving her a heads up that this is coming. These are the finishing touches I guess. Most bills have been transferred into my name except the ones were we need to be fully divorced, such as car registrations and insurances.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
