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That's OK, Jess. Most new members are advised to put their basic info into their sig, like you have. Seek out the threads of those who sound either similar in type of issue or similar in time frame of M.

You may find advice that, while possibly more advanced than where you are and able to "be" at this time, dig deeper into their earlier posts and see the advice there. Some advice and perhaps the support given by someone specific may lead you to whom you might want to help you in your bootcamp thread.

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Kaffe you are wise.


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Good advice.


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My situation is very unique and its hard to find someone.


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I signed up a few weeks ago, but have never before participated in an interactive online forum. HELP! I am a total newbie and do not know how to: find an appropriate forum, start a thread, find others with a similar situation, ask for help.



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What are you looking for?


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All - I may be absent for another day or two. We lost our dog to lymphoma this weekend, and it has hit me much harder than I thought it would. So, I apologize, please bear with me.


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Sorry sg to hear that...


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I'd like to use a coach for DB'ing but our recent finacial trouble I've discovered since W told me she wants to seperate hasn't enought for phone coaching.
I'm currently still looking to move out and not support her, but my credit score is making rental really expensive. Plus I have about 25 years worth the stuff to get rid of and sell.
S7 is starting to show signs of distrust in us and the S12 is playing tough for now.
Today I've got no hope for this marriage have become very disgusted with what the W has done to our (almost) 25 years of M.
I'm almost done........


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Originally Posted By: sgctxok
All - I may be absent for another day or two. We lost our dog to lymphoma this weekend, and it has hit me much harder than I thought it would. So, I apologize, please bear with me.

Ouch! that's hard...I understand and wish you well.


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