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When I leave the apartment, do I even say anything to him? I'll have to walk by him...

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you also don't need to leave the house if you don't want to. wink
And I agree with ScaredSilly, you don't need other people either!

Here's some ideas that I do at home (I am trying to be more comfortable at home instead of on the go go go with other people all the time):
start a relaxing ritual - light candles and:

Read (a real book, no internet!)
Watch a movie with popcorn
Learn to knit, or crochet
paint
cook something new

anyway, you get the idea.


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H moved 2/12. Own apt 05/12, EAs, PAs, gfriends, oh my!
I'm done. 12/12

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SD...

I feel your pain... though my W moved out two weeks ago today, she uses me as her primary care plan so she can work at hospital to afford rent on new apartment... I have the boys more than she does (which I don't mind when they are up, we are having a great time) but as soon as they go to bed I'm left alone with nothing but my thoughts... VERY difficult to process everything... and GAL is tough when you have a 8 and 5yo tagging along... I'm praying a lot and beginning to read the bible.. I have faith that my sitch will work out in God's time.. good luck to you... do your best... have faith, be good and stay safe...


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Originally Posted By: sophiedaphne
When I leave the apartment, do I even say anything to him? I'll have to walk by him...


Sure if you want to. "Hey, I'll see you later!" works just fine. (and say it with a smile in your voice because you should be excited to GAL!) No, you don't need to tell him what you are up to.

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FF

I have the same issue, I'm fine while D7 is up, but when goes to sleep, I get into a funk.


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I still love you, but 4-25-12
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Thanks everyone. I think I am going to head to the bookstore and read something, since the library is closed. Thanks for your replies and support.

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SD - bookstore is a great idea. I've done that, too! Have a nice night!

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On my way out, a friend asked if I wanted to grab a drink so I said ok! I said see you later! On the way out and husband angriy said bye

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See? He gets angry no matter what. Just enjoy yourself.


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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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Thanks guys.

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