Yeah but the fasting ahead of time is a real buzzkill!
Me: 36 Her: 35 Together 7/09 Married 8/7/10 Separate rooms since at least April 11 "I've decided I want a divorce" 12/5/11 She moves out of state/files 2/7/12 Dissolution final 5/12
Oh that's a pleasant thought, Rick! In order to get a sound 45 minutes of sleep all one has to do is to permit invasion of your nether regions by some alien object...."now this won't hurt a bit!"
Sounds lovely!
Me51 W53 S17 S14 M22 T25 Bomb-9/11; A-11/11; I move out 11/11
It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.
Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife
W is driving me to get a colonoscpy in a couple of hours. That is pretty loving of her. I know when we are D I will have to help her also. I will gladly help her. I am no longer angry with her just tired of the sitch.
What a great statement. Good job taking the positive for what it was.
Glad to hear all went well with the doctors. Keep on keeping on!
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
I just realized that I know six people who have or are getting a D. That is alot of peoPle but not one of the them wanted to work it out. Instead they started dating others and never looked back. Not sure why that came to me?
Today is way cold so nOt sure what to do for GAL. Maybe a ride to the mall or a historical village and have coffee. I asked D to go to a movie she was not interested. But she may have her BF to come over so I can.teach them to cook home made raviolis.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
I just realized that I know six people who have or are getting a D. That is alot of peoPle but not one of the them wanted to work it out. Instead they started dating others and never looked back. Not sure why that came to me?
It's in the water....From Canada apparently....
The cool aspect would be for you to practice your validating and listening skills with those people, and see how many of them have fallen into the "victim" role.
I listen to people where I work that have gone through this, and the anger that they still spew is amazing...
And then I look back with zero regrets and thank God that I did it the right way.....
Then again, I am a people studier too....
Cold huh ??
Not sure what part of the country you are from...
Since you laughed at my Iggles line yesterday, you could drive to the "Iggles" hall of fame, and see their one players shrine...
Rick you crack me up. However, I'm not planning on signing up for a colonoscopy anytime time soon for the sole purpose of getting 45 minutes of solid sleep. I am thankful there are no issues to report.
Originally Posted By: Rick1963
I just realized that I know six people who have or are getting a D. That is alot of peoPle but not one of the them wanted to work it out. Instead they started dating others and never looked back. Not sure why that came to me?
Rick, I think this speaks volume about the quality of the road you've taken. I don't like the chances of these people being in a healthy relationship. It doesn't sound like they have taken the time to work on themselves. This could've been you. But, no you have taken the time to work on yourself and you've come so far along on this journey. Well done, my friend.
Thanks JB that means alot to me. Hope you are doing well. Every time I think of u I want to ride my bike. But today is toooo cold.
Mach the funniest part is that while I was getting prepped my doctor showed up with a Jetts ID holder. Was thinking about the Iggles line and wanted to share with him. But he literally had my ass on the line so I said nothing.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
