You could have given her all the options you listed above and let her decide which one to choose.
Otherwise you're letting her handle the crappy stuff and throwing up your hands. What was SHE supposed to do?
Can you get a 2nd job or a part time weekend one, b/c money is way too stressful for you guys and you maybe you could do it at night if the kids are with her anyhow. Does she have a job? I don't recall the ages of the kids. If they are all in school can she get work of some type?
Focus on fixing the money issues. Every woman/mother wants to know their kids are going to be alright. Fair or not, it's seen as a man's job to help provide. Can you do more? Not skimping on all things but getting a grip on finances and seeing a financial counselor or something to turn this around.
Just sounds like you don't really have a financial PLAN...
hang in there. One thing at a time, one day at a time.
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