Need Advice!! Not sure on next move? Part 2

[2stepboogie]

[quote=2stepboogie]

Just once per day 2Step?! I check my W's FB profile like every few hours to make sure that I'm still M'd to her! LOL...

BITS
Denver

Ok you got me. I check it a lot!!! I am such a woman

[Denver_2010]

[quote=2stepboogie]

Just once per day 2Step?! I check my W's FB profile like every few hours to make sure that I'm still M'd to her! LOL...

BITS
Denver

Ok you got me. I check it a lot!!! I am such a woman

LOL... good times eh?

[dixiegal]

You boy's are sooo funny! It warms my heart and makes me laugh out loud! GOD bless ya 4 that! LIS your so sweet to be protective of us!!! I knew I liked ya too!!!

Looks like we will be snowed/iced in 2morrow too! So, gotta pace my things to do. LOL

Thanks for your concern for me and the ice! Its so odd dealing w/the stuff alone.

x0x0 yall!

[lostinscared]

I'm originally from the Northeast and I'm scared to death of the ice and snow! Scared to death. So being in TX, I can't imagine how you are feeling. You do the best you can do and do NOT drive until you are comfortable. You CAN take care of yourself. I know you can.

Looking for something to do??? Go online and pick your next puppy

And for the boys... I am a woman and I don't check my H's page. GET OFF OF THEIR PAGES AND STAY OFF OF THEM. Nothing good could come of it.

[MrBond]

Time for you to start posting and journaling on FB how well YOUR life is.

[Denver_2010]

Time for you to start posting and journaling on FB how well YOUR life is.

I agree with Bond! I started doing that from day 1 of my GAL efforts and W has made a couple of comments about what I have posted. So I know she checks it and I know that it makes her curious.

Don't take it too far though. Early on, I posted a pic of a couple of new friends that I had met at a party. One of the friends was a fairly attractive woman. Now this was when my W was still had a ton of vitriol towards me, but she commented very sarcastically under the photo "nice". I know that it bothered her, but not in a good way due to my particular situation. My point is, just use it as a way of documenting how you are GALing. It can be used with great effectiveness and provide your H a brief glimpse into your life.

BITS
Denver

[dixiegal]

Afternoon Yall,

We'll still iced in!! My power went out at 3am...had to drive in this mess to work. My SUV slid into the ditch on the way. But, these nice guys pulled over and helped me out!!!

Now, I'm hoping when I get home the power will be back on too...so, if your out becareful.

I'm a bit down today folks......H didnt even try in anyway to contact me, to see if I was okay. We don't get this kinda of weather in North Texas. So, it's a big deal ya know. It really hurts that it appears that to him: I don't exsist anymore, he doesn't even care about my saftey, and/or is occupied w/someone else???? I guess, he has no love in his heart for me any longer. So, what am I even doing?????

I know I shouldnt think these things...but, I do.

Going DARK and LRT [censored]! He clearly wants nothing to do with me any longer. I knew it last week when he picked the Dog up. I could sense it...he was different....he has moved on....

Prayers,

Dixie

[Denver_2010]

Sorry to hear that you are having a tough day Dixie. I know that going dark is hard. You have to give it some time though. I'm talking about weeks, maybe even months. He has to start to think that he may be really losing you.

Only you can decide whether or not it is worth the effort. Only you can decide when it is time for you to truly move on. Only you decides when it is over.

BITS
Denver

[dixiegal]

Thanks Denver!

Your right....I looked down at my Wedding Ring after reading your response....I'm not ready to take it off-I just put it back on! I haven't stopped loving my H...even if he doesn't love/want me anymore. My vows meant something to me. Even at a young age, I meant it..

Thanks for holding me up! I holding on Denver...arent we all!

[sandi2]

Hi, haven't posted to you before but have read a few from you on other threads. You said something that I have read many, many times from a LBS, when you referred to your wedding vows. I was a WAW, in heart, and the last thing I probably thought about were my vows. I don't mean that in an ugly way, please understand, but I honestly was so messed up that my "vows" didn't cross my mind. I wonder if it does pop in the mind of most LBS, IDK.

So, I only say this in hope that you won't torture yourself by wondering if he ever took his vows seriously. The frame of mind a LBS has is difficult to understand and so many LBS try to figure them out. I'm sure he did take them seriously when he said them.....just as I'm sure he loved you.

I'm just rambling......

((hugs))