Need Advice!!!!!

[lostinscared]

Then, under no circumstances, do you agree with the terms. You can agree to divorce, but you need to make sure that you express what you want your terms to be.

Phoenix is right. You do need to find the will power to stop pushing. It's easier said than done so I'm not lecturing. What are you doing to get out of the house and get away from this situation?

[John170]

Im out of the house we have been separated for over 3 months

[lostinscared]

I'm sorry, I mean what are you doing to get out of where you are living right now and GALing? I like to ask that of a lot of people because it gives me ideas.

[John170]

well ive consumed myself in my work and friends and my children. i also spend time coaching little league athletics and weight training.

[John170]

well second day of going dark. feels good for some reason cant explain it dont feel like i need her anymore maybe im detaching.

[John170]

i do need a question answered though our 12th wedding anniversary is coming up next week. should i send flowers and a card or just act as if it is another day?

[MrBond]

Is she hostile towards you? If so, then I wouldn't send anything. If you're on friendly terms with her, a basic card with no "I Love YOu's" is good enough.

[John170]

yea i would say she is hostile right now cause of the things ive said.

[John170]

i say hostile, meaning she wouldn't return any text messages before i went dark.

[John170]

Sunday was out last contact and she sent me a text after the call saying see the things u say only proves you haven't changed.