Ok this is my plan i am going to stop initiating any contact with her unless she contacts me. Second when she does im going to be upbeat and agree with her. Third im going to stop worrying about what she is doing live my life take care of my son and stop accusing her of being with another man, for some reason that infuriates her.
hope i was reading you situation. let me tell u people say trust ur gut feeling in a relationship i can tell u from personal experience do not trust ur gut with ur spouse. i did and ended up looking like a fool every single time. your mind will play tricks on u and i was wrong every single time
This is essentially the same post you listed when you first got on here several months ago. You haven't learned anything. You continue to poke and prod your W. You haven't dealt with your anger and insecurity issues. And then you keep wondering why she's not even responding back to your texts.
Leave her alone.
"stop accusing her of being with another man, for some reason that infuriates her."
Let's get real here. You were the one who had the affair and it's your insecurities that made you think she was seeing another guy before. You constantly bothered and checked up on her when you were having your side salad and you're still doing it.
Go back and start realizing your faults and change those. You sending your W the videos etc. you're telling her that she needs to change. She doesn't. YOU DO.
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well she just text me again about divorce. i nicely told her i was working on myself and would not be a part of destroying our family. if she wanted a divorce i wouldn't fight her but would not be an active participant.
