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CW,

It sounds as though you handled yourself with poise and grace. If I was OW, I would have been annoyed at seeing that. It's possible that she may nag H about it. You might want to prepare yourself for a possible withdrawal from H.

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I second GAG on all accounts but you were so strong to not quickly walk away from the car or show you were upset or anything negative.

You (acted) comfortable, you joked around, you DIDN'T EVEN LOOK AT HER. I hope she felt so small and ashamed!!!


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CW - your strength is really showing through...that was awesome how you handled yourself...but I can imagine how much that took out of you.

I like how you ignored the OW...


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CW,

I agree, you handled the sitch extremely well!

My question is - why was ow sitting in the back seat of the truck? Am I the only one that thinks that's a little strange?

Even though CW's H brought ow along with, at least he got out of the truck and came over to the car to talk to her so therefore making sure she didn't get out and have to see the ow.

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Seeking,

You're right on both counts! It IS odd that OW was riding in the back seat.

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Good for you for holding it together knowing OW was there in the truck.


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Awesome exchange:)


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It sounds as though you handled yourself with poise and grace


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you were so strong


Thankyou everyone for your confidence in me!

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I can imagine how much that took out of you.


Let's just say I had to come home and have a couple of drinks...not really so strong afterall!


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I just did the above post and decided to just come out and ask D12 how she rated getting to sit in the front seat with her Dad?
She looked at me kinda puzzled.....

IS EVERYONE READY FOR A GOOD LAUGH???? laugh laugh laugh

D12 just explained that she meant that OW went with them cutting wood...she was NOT in the truck afterall....

Is everyone laughing along with me...only my laugh sounds like it belongs to someone in a straight jacket...and my left eye is twitching and I woke with a headache for no reason!!!

But again...thankyou for all of the kinds words and responses! At least we know that I will be able to handle it if it does happen! smile


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CW,

Glad your H didn't bring ow along after all. smile

You've had two positive encounters with your H in two days! Nice to hear of him peeking out of the tunnel and keeping his word in bringing you heating material!

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CW,

Just another example that things are not always as they appear to be. YIKES!!!!!!!!!!

Sorry you went through that emotional episode. This will be a good reminder next time to not make assumptions (I know that it is hard not to do. I am guilty myself.)

I agree with Seeking. You HAVE had some positive interactions!

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Originally Posted By: goodattitudegirl
Just another example that things are not always as they appear to be. YIKES!!!!!!!!!!

Was is Churchill that said?

The only thing we have to fear is "fear" itself.

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