Fair enough newmama. Good to know about yourself. I think that would be something that you'd want to be up front about when seeking potential LTR, as many guys might assume that you'd be open to having more biological children!
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
no problemo- luckily on match there is a question that comes up about kids that is in the intro: Do you want kids? And you can answer "No, but it's ok if my partner has kids."
So hopefully that covers it!
hey- that's a word you can give your bf- "partner" As you have seen,it is used more commonly among heterosexual couples than it used to be
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
oh and I meant that I updated my profile INFO as well as the photo.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
Thanks for checking on me, CW I am living in the semi-present (I think about the next month but that is as far as my brain will allow) As for your sitch- You are operating in a calm, cool, manner and that is awesome.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
hey- that's a word you can give your bf- "partner" As you have seen,it is used more commonly among heterosexual couples than it used to be
That sounds so Serious though . I usually call him my "lover" or my "squeeze" when we are alone together.
Good option on how to deal with the kids thing on Match.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
Just spent over an hour on okcupid trying to answer those questions. I am reminded of "plenty of fish" because it has a total hook up vibe. Lots of questions about wanting open or monogomous relationships, about being open to sex with an "unhappily" married person, and questions about sex...rather EXPLICIT questions about sex.
am worn out and going to bed but just heard a news blip about how night owls have a higher IQ than early to bed sleepers.I didn't get to hear the explanation though!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
am worn out and going to bed but just heard a news blip about how night owls have a higher IQ than early to bed sleepers.I didn't get to hear the explanation though!
I knew there was a reason why I stay up so late!
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
I updated my match profile AGAIN so we will see. I would post what I wrote but I don't know if I feel like reading others' opinions You know how that is sometimes, right?
Ok since S likes eggs I decided to make a crustless quiche for dinner. I threw in veggies as well as bacon so hopefully he will eat it!
My grandma went to the hospital for shortness of breath and turned out she was severely anemic. She had a blood transfusion and got some iron supplements through an IV (?). She has congestive heart failure but I guess it is something you live with and it doesn't mean you will necessarily have a heart attack. Anyway, she is doing well but I am preparing for her passing at some point in the near future so it won't be as much of as a shock. We are pretty close and I am lucky to have had her in my life!
So S and I will be visiting her after his nap. I haven't heard from exSIL yet but did confirm via text that we should talk in the next couple of days.
that's about it for now...still feel like I am in the process of being an official divorced parent in search of a new life.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
newmama, I hope that your grandma is comfortable right now. Always a reminder to pick strawberries, right? (((hugs)))
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
. I usually call him my "lover" or my "squeeze" when we are alone together.
You know how that is sometimes, right?