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No I have no ideal when we are going back to court. We were one day away from it when we were granted a continunce for the child appointed advocate to get involved in our case. My lawyer keeps telling me to hang in there it takes time then last time he spoke to me he said "we got her". In the past he has told me in the 35 years he's been doing this he has not seen very many women who file first act like mine he said that's normally the way the spouse who was surprised acts. 
In a short rundown in 5 months she has dated and introduced 7 men to my kids of the 7 I have found one that has a felony conviction and a dwi, she let him baby set my 3 boys one night. Then 2 of the om have been arrested for dwi # 3 and 7. I have pictures of 4 of the 7 parked at my house overnight and also when my kids were there. She has taking my kids out of town on 2 occasions and I have dozens of pics from facebook with her drinking. My lawyer has told me that this should be one of the easiest fathers custody he has ever taken to court. 
Without talking to him I can tell you what he will say about taking her back to court. Don't do it be patient and let the child advocate do her job document document document. I've been down this road before. 
I can push him to do it but he will advise against it. 


M40, W 37
M 11 1/2 y
T 13 y
D filed 5-18-10
S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10
Counter sued for d 6-16-10
OM2 discovered 8-10-10
OM3, OM4
4 kids 10, 7, & 3
D date 10-14-10
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Listen to your attorney, but if this BS happens again with your W, go pick-up the kids yourself if you have the time.

Best of luck to you.

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I want to thank everyone who ever stopped by and gave support, I appreciate it. I have decided to go where the vets went.


M40, W 37
M 11 1/2 y
T 13 y
D filed 5-18-10
S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10
Counter sued for d 6-16-10
OM2 discovered 8-10-10
OM3, OM4
4 kids 10, 7, & 3
D date 10-14-10
http://tiny.cc/mxzct
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I feel so bad for you and the waiting is just tearing you and your kids apart.

Also, I am so glad you ignore the advice to not look at facebook. Oh, yeah riiight....ignore evidence that could help you in this battle.

I will never understand the so-called "no snooping" uh...."rule." WTF?? Yeah, it hurts, but so does everything else when you're dealing with a degenerate WAS.

I bet there are millions of LBS who would have fared a lot better if they had "snooped" more instead of being caught flat-footed without valuable evidence.

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