The next part the fight is on!

[40andsadintexas]

Journaling

I read on a thread today someone was wondering about the WAW anger, someone said that anger is better than indifferent. Not sure about this. I have read every where that any feeling equals some attachment. My WAW is very angry but I do not think she has any attachment left for me. I for the most part feel nothing for her I am truly through with her, I wish it had a different ending but I only had ½ of a vote. I do not want her back but sometimes I wonder why she is so angry and why she uses the kids against me some things I guess I will never understand.

Someone else said they do not believe in checking on a WAW when there is separation, I do not agree with this at all. My kids still live in that house, and they should have the right to live there without bf hanging around so I have no problem documenting when I find him there. Divorce is war .

[Lostinlife]

I could've wrote this.....and I back you 100%

[Lostinlife]

I wanted to add, my wife is indifferent towards me, and there is no feeling of attachment left at all.....none. Anger is probably a little better.

[40andsadintexas]

Anger is good because it gives you something to talk about because she acts crazy when she is angry :-)

[40andsadintexas]

I went back and read my first post last night and its kind of amazing how much my feelings have changed in that time. Looking back I am so thankful that I never was melty begging man I can look back at B-day and the 2 weeks I remained in my house with pride, being a melty man would not have changed one thing. When I came here I was 3 1/2 months deep in a divorce I knew it was over but still clinged to hope that one day we could reconcile. OM # 2 - 7 changed my outlook pretty quick. Its funny when I got here she had ended the A with OM#1 and it looked like she was calming down, boy was I wrong she was just taking a breather.

One thing is for sure once a cheater always a cheater. OM#7 is posting his love pictures all over facebook they all hugging and happy and posed like an engagement picture, D-10 told me last night that OM#2 was back hanging around the house last night.
I worry that if she gets custody she will move my kids to the Dallas area where OM#7 lives. The reality of this is very small for several reasons number one being STBEX works for her parents and makes 3 times as much money as she could anywhere else, OM#7 will be dumped pretty soon if she follows her recent track record. I know the chances of her moving are not logical but it still worries me.

[gr8 day 2B alive]

Hey 40,

I know in my mediation meeting We put something in there about moving away. If either party moved out of a specified area the custody issue needed to be re-opened.

NOt sure if that helps but just a thought.
gr8

[40andsadintexas]

Yes I think in our county if she tries to move out of the county we can take her to court which I will. Hopefully this is a mute point because I win managing custody.

[40andsadintexas]

I was hoping to make it a full week without sending a complaint to the lawyer but no such luck. 
The wicked witch of West Texas called me today and told me that she was leaving town to go to a high school football game and that I would have to pick the kids up at her moms house at 6:00. 
I thought about this for a while and decided that I would go pick my kids up from school since it's Friday and salesmen don't really do too much on Friday afternoons any way so I called my motheronlaw and told her not to worry about getting my kids that I would get them. All heck broke loose my motheronlaw ended up telling me that I could not get my kids I told her she was welcome to go to my kids school and watch me. She ended up hanging up on me. 
A few minutes later the wicked witch called raising cane and told me now that her and her mom had plans and that she was picking them up and they were going some where and she would have them at home by six. 
She then started telling me what wonderful grandparents her parents were and our children are lucky to have them. Then it turned ugly because I said that I didn't think a grandmother that would keep the kids while her daughter was out committing adultery was a very wonderful person and that her whole family was morally bankrupt. She told me to f off and I told her about the same. 
At six I went to my house and just as I expected the wicked witch was nowhere to be found her mom was sitting in front of my house with the kids. 
The extent that the wicked witch and now her mom go to to keep me from seeing my kids an extra 2 hours and 45 minutes is just unbelievable. My wifes sister had the nerve to tell me I didn't get my kids until 6 what's the big deal. The big deal is those are my kids and if my wife is not there to pick them up my motheronlaw dam sure don't have the right to tell me I can't pick up my kids under no ones law does grand parents have more rights than parents. Plus I freaking hate being lied to. Every thing I have read and all the research I have done says that you will not win child custody on one big thing that normally it takes a bunch of smaller infractions that form a pattern that sway judges. Boy she is doing that. 

[WalkingMan]

Does her family know that she is an adulteress? Have you exposed her?

[40andsadintexas]

Yes I exposed her. And on the 14th of October my stbex, her mom, and bf#7 and my kids all went to corpus Christi to a wedding. My mother inlaw wached the kids the first night so the stbex could have a movie date. The next night the old hag watched the kids while the stbex and bf#7 went to a bar. My stbex whole family is morally bankrupt.