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Yes.

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Originally Posted By: Starsky309

Yes.

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P.S. Don't make decisions on those days smirk


Trust me. Every decision I've made that has burned me has been made when I've been emotionally exhausted. Eventually you'll find an even keel, almost a peace, and then you'll be better prepared to make the tough decisions.

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Don't make major decision when you are feeling HALT:

Hungry
Angry
Lonely
Tired


This has saved my butt many a time.


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Originally Posted By: WithoutANet
Don't make major decision when you are feeling HALT:

Hungry
Angry
Lonely
Tired



This has saved my butt many a time.


O crap, is THAT what the "H" is for. All this time I thought it was


Horny


blush smirk


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Yeah that cow will never be the same huh?



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Good advice... I am simply exhausted and tired of the F(@( drama... will step away and do nothing. Chat with you all tomorrow,


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Well, last night she and I talked for a little bit after putting the knucklehead (son) to bed.

She wants to go out on a date tonight.

She also said the other night when I slept in my bed, she thought I was reconsidering about working it out and didnt like how that made her feel.

She did NOT go to TKD last night, she had a crown crack and had to go see the dentist and that didnt allow her enough time to get back and then go to TKD she said.. I just agreed with her.

so no TKD since I laid down the NC.. and she said last night she will respect my boundry and will work this out. I told her I would leave if she cant be loyal and faithful and that is simply a fact. She said she will be.

So that is about it for now. Feel better after a good nights rest. Mind gets cluttered. She wants to move back into bedroom this week..


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Quote:
she thought I was reconsidering about working it out and didnt like how that made her feel.


This is good for now...good to keep this going for a bit, until you are both sure you are both truly working on things and committed. Don't lose this yet.


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Originally Posted By: Pensacolabroken


She did NOT go to TKD last night, she had a crown crack and had to go see the dentist and that didnt allow her enough time to get back and then go to TKD she said..



Am I the only one here who doesn't fully trust this?

Any way you could discreetly verify this, Pcola?


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What dentists are open at night??? confused


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