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Mish, if you don't ask then they never have a chance to show up. If you ask, you at least put the responsibility on them. If they choose not to spend time with her, that is something they can feel guilty over. But you have done the right things, both in taking care of your mom and telling everyone what is going on.

As for your church, you are involved with bible study and such. Talk to them, talk to your pastor. Even if your mom isn't known there, you are known to some. Ask on behalf of yourself too. You are dealing with a LOT. Anyone would be overwhelmed.

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You all make me so teary. You are all such wonderful, supportive people. I wish you were all in closer proximity so I could just come give you all BIG HUGS!!!

I have bible study tomorrow night. I asked for prayer last week and explained the situation during that. If I can manage it, I'll see if I can corner our leader and talk to her about arranging some help. She is a super lady with a lot of spunk. She may be better able to rally the troops.


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I know that it is hard for you to ask for help. Maybe you can email...?

I wish I lived closer, too - you would get lasagna this week. I don't think it ships well, though...

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That sounds like a plan.

I wish I lived closer too so I could help more. But we'll have to settle for virtual hugs for the moment. smile

Love ya chica.


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I love the virtual hugs! You guys give the bestest!!!

Yeah Donna, lasagna doesn't do too well in the mail. All that gooey cheese. YUM! I think my mailman might confiscate it anyway!


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(((((Mish))))) I wanted to check in and see how you and your Mom are doing. Hoping for the best.

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(((Mish))), saw your FB update. I'm keeping you and your mom in my thoughts and prayers.


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I just got an update from Mish....her mom has decided to not have any more dialysis, so it is a matter of time.....

Mish, we are all thinking of you, here...

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