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Sheepdogs always have big heads, Jack. It's only important whether or not they are good at protecting the sheep.


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Originally Posted By: Ilikemenow
Just read your first post.......WHAT THE FREAK HAPPENED TO YOU??????
You sounded so nice.....lost but nice...now all you sound like is a Jack A**


This thread got lost in my must read list.

You should check your boundaries. I call your statement a CB.

I wish your M/R is doing well.


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...Seven months after the attack on September 11, 2001, Todd Beamer was honored in his hometown of Cranbury, New Jersey. Todd, as you recall, was the man on Flight 93 over Pennsylvania who called on his cell phone to alert an operator from United Airlines about the hijacking. When he learned of the other three passenger planes that had been used as weapons, Todd dropped his phone and uttered the words, "Let's roll," which authorities believe was a signal to the other passengers to confront the terrorist hijackers. In one hour, a transformation occurred among the passengers - athletes, business people and parents. -- from sheep to sheepdogs and together they fought the wolves, ultimately saving an unknown number of lives on the ground.


I would never consider myself in the same league as Todd Beamer, that guy along with the people that joined him in that incredible situation made the ultimate sacrifice, I haven't done anything nearly as heroic.

It's a decent post though, I never looked at things this way before, a lot of what is described in it does resonate with me, I'm not sure if the choice made, to be one or the other (sheep or sheepdog), was a conscious one on my part but it does "fit" me, if that makes sense.

The last few words were very true for me,
"... at your moment of truth",

I think I've described it as reaching your own "personal threshold", that imaginary line within you, the one where you finally cross it and it tips the scales in such a way that finally recognize and weigh your personal value, where you realize you are worth more/better than whatever your situation is, the day when someone finally wakes up from their self imposed slumber, when their eyes finally open to reality without being clouded by feelings, desires, hopes, dreams, etc. And it's not that those things are bad, they're essential to being human but you can't let those things distort whatever the current reality of your respective situation is.

thanks bro, that's 2 posts today that really made my day by reading them - I appreciate it.

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I wish your M/R is doing well.


Pretty rude around here if that is said snidely.



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Originally Posted By: Ilikemenow
Just read your first post.......WHAT THE FREAK HAPPENED TO YOU??????
You sounded so nice.....lost but nice...now all you sound like is a Jack A**


Nice!

sounds like I have a new fan ;-)
(that was sarcasm if you didn't catch that)

Let me ask a question,
Have I commented on your specific personal situation,
not some generic thread covering many situations,
but your situation specifically and just blabbed out loud,

"ILMN, your husband is a Jack A$$!"

Have I done something to you that you consider much worse than what your husband has done?

Have you spoken to him this way?

I have not called you any names,
why would I?
I don't know you personally,
why would I want to insult you or attempt to insult you?

For what gain?
What purpose?
What benefit is achieved in me insulting you personally?

None.

So what do you gain by attempting to insult me?

Nothing.

It certainly doesn't help your situation.

I suggest (and remember this is just advice, you have free will and you are free to do as you please) you focus on your situation instead of losing focus and trolling other threads and insulting people.

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Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans
I can her his head swell from here Star.


Hey!

- that happens only when I get excited!!!

;-)

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Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans
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I wish your M/R is doing well.


Pretty rude around here if that is said snidely.


I don't need to stand up for any vet here. They have alligator skins.

But I have not yet read such a short offencive attack on personality yet.

So yes, I wish that the person who said it can have a fruitful and happy relationship with all people in his/her life.

With a mouth like that it would be challenging.

Ever realize that caps magnify the message?


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But you did Pookie.

I also said 'if'.

So 'if' THAT (yes I have realized that)was the case, you pointing out or being opposed to rude behavior is OK, but it is not OK if I do?



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Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans
But you did Pookie.

I also said 'if'.

So 'if' THAT (yes I have realized that)was the case, you pointing out or being opposed to rude behavior is OK, but it is not OK if I do?


You weren't wrong about "if". It was snide.

I will now withdraw myself back to my ranks so you can find somebody else who has been snide.

There will not be a third collision with you.

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Honestly an awesome read. Great to see the transformation, it's textbook.


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