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Originally Posted By: FindingMyVoice
Good morning Pinhead, was just checking in to see how you're doing...


Reality is setting in. Realizing I'm going to be living in a small apartment, without my daughters half the time, and without my marriage, crappy as it may be. Just having a little pity party. Think I'm going to go steal some Halloween candy from the neighboring cubicle... wink

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Originally Posted By: pinhead
Says she wants to feel it for me, but doesn't know how.

I'm sorry... what?! She wants to feel it but doesn't know HOW? Please. There's TONS of resources out there for people who really want it. And you offered it to her in the form of Retro and she turned it down. Some major mixed messages she's trying to get you to swallow there. Hope you're able to just keep your head down and stay focused.


I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.
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Originally Posted By: pinhead
Says she wants to feel it for me, but doesn't know how.

I'm sorry... what?! She wants to feel it but doesn't know HOW? Please. There's TONS of resources out there for people who really want it. And you offered it to her in the form of Retro and she turned it down. Some major mixed messages she's trying to get you to swallow there. Hope you're able to just keep your head down and stay focused.


It's easy for someone to say that, hard to actually take steps.

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Originally Posted By: pinhead
It's easy for someone to say that, hard to actually take steps.

Really? In my case I found it easier to take the steps rather than wallowing in what I didn't feel for my H anymore. Because at that point, what do you have to lose?

Sorry things are starting to hit you... stay strong.


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Originally Posted By: pinhead
It's easy for someone to say that, hard to actually take steps.

Really? In my case I found it easier to take the steps rather than wallowing in what I didn't feel for my H anymore. Because at that point, what do you have to lose?

Sorry things are starting to hit you... stay strong.


I guess I meant it's easy for someone to say; to really mean it? Shrug. She needs to make her choices.

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Originally Posted By: pinhead
She needs to make her choices.


If you move out...what choice is she making?

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She's letting me go.

Says a lot.

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And you can't force someone to make choices. You can only make your own choices about what you do in your life.

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Originally Posted By: pinhead
She's letting me go.

Says a lot.


She truly loves you.


Enjoy the Silence
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She's letting me go.

Says a lot.


She truly loves you.



Where's the smartass emoticon!

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