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Originally Posted By: 40andsadintexas
Talked to the lawyer this morning he told me that he would call the stbex lawyer he thought he could get this little problem fixed today.


Good call. Fight for your kids. I know you are.

Do not let her call the shots any longer!

Good luck.


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I saw my kids tonight for the first time since 10-6-10. I wish I could say we had a wonderful time but sadly that's not the case. My kids are going through a lot and they are hurting they spent the night telling me what mom has been up to/ I'm just going to hit the 2 highest spots or lowest I should say
1. When the STBEX took my kids to the fort worth zoo the weekend of 10-08-10 her boyfriend OM#7 spanked one of my twins.
2. On the Corpus Christi trip last weekend OM# 7 spanked the same twin.
3. The school is talking about removing S-7 from second grade and putting him back in first grade, you think that I would hear this from the school or the STBEX but no I hear this from D-10

I am so mad I could spit nails.
The call to the lawyer today really helped she still has my phones blocked


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Contact your L right away about the OM spanking your kids. Now they are in physical harm. You need to get the away from him ASAP.


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I will asap in the morning. Does any one have any experience with this can I get a restraining order on him?


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Document everything. Get phone records to show how many times you've tried to call your crazy W. You need things to back up your claim that you are trying to stay in contact with your kids.


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Geez, 40...you have one of the more extreme cases here. Maybe you can get a court-ordered psychological evaluation. How can you let someone you barely know even near your children??!!


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Is there a child advocate that should be hearing some of this...from the kids?

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Originally Posted By: 40andsadintexas
I will asap in the morning. Does any one have any experience with this can I get a restraining order on him?


You can always ask for one. It's up to the judge to decide if you can get one.

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Originally Posted By: KerryK
Is there a child advocate that should be hearing some of this...from the kids?


If there isn't an attorney ad litem here, there sure should be. If there isn't an ad litem law in Texas here is cause celebre.

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We had a child advocate and she has been appointed as of 10-13-2010, she is working a case that is in court next week, she should make first contact with me the week after next according to my lawyer this morning. I want to get aggressive and go after them with a temporary restraining order my lawyer said we could do that but does not feel this is the best way to Handel it. He wants me to remain calm and let the child advocate get involved before we do anything.
I have sent him a letter with a somewhat less aggressive move that he should answer me on Monday'

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Lawyer if we file an injunction that enjoins Jenifer from allowing OM#7 or any other boyfriend to disciplining my children would that not bring this out in the open and make it harder for Jenifer and her counsel to sweep this under the table. I respect your opinion and will not go against your advice but my gut tells me to be very aggressive with this situation.

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My lawyer told me to call her and tell her not to let anyone touch my kids again, that we had evidence that om7 had spanked twin 1 on 2 separate occasions and we were going to use it in court, any further instances of this would result in immediate court action
her reply was to tell me F%%% Off I hung up at that point.

I have S-7 recorded telling me how OM-7 spanked twin1 burnt on cd and delivered to lawyer this afternoon.


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T 13 y
D filed 5-18-10
S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10
Counter sued for d 6-16-10
OM2 discovered 8-10-10
OM3, OM4
4 kids 10, 7, & 3
D date 10-14-10
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