Our saying similar to "golden the pill" is something like "stop blowing sunshine up my a$$". Somehow golden the pill sounds so much nicer! I hope you can take that with the laughter it was meant to bring.
Hope you are feeling the hugs and prayers from all of us. You know you have our unconditional support.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
K, You are going through a rough storm. Little things will tempt you to react. H has some flaws and you have some too. Just try to hold on and stay calm. It'll pass in a few days. The best is yet to come.
Hey K.. sounds like a very difficult sad time. Telling your Mum must have been hard for your brother. I'm glad you stood up to H and told him to man up, shut up and support you for a change! Its sweet to think of him there cooking and helping with the kids, he's a proper little Mrs Doubtfire. I am sure he is enjoying that, despite being worried about work? Men always worry about work.. dont take it personally.
Shame for your daughter, I dont know how you address that with her. She is too young to be afraid to be herself or speak her mind, in case her Dad leaves again, seeing as it wasnt her fault anyway when he did!! Bless her.
Sending you hugs, xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
That broke my heart to read what your beautiful daughter said about her dad leaving if she didn't say a certain thing. I hope you have been able to address that with her even in this difficult time.
(((((((Maria)))))))))
Praying for you and your family daily sweetie. One day at a time....
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
We hired a 24hr nurse as of today. My mom finally agreed which means she is really tired.
I am ok in general. We have a national day off on October 28th (when Greece said "No" to Mussolini, "No, you cant come in our country" and it was the beginning of the end for them-LOL- Hi John!) and I wish we could go away but we cant.
My kids will need time to feel safe again. I know that. I see that. My H is just now starting to realise it. K
The nurse should lift some of the burden and help to ease all of your minds. Making your dad as comfortable as possible is the priority and the nurse is definitely trained to do that.
You Greeks sure have a lot of national holidays! Maybe it just seems like a lot. Do you know how many there are?
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
