The next part the fight is on!

[Lostinlife]

To every one that says not to involve your kids they are probably waw who don't want there kids to know what they are up to,

110% correct.

[40andsadintexas]

D-10 called me this morning and told me that Momma slapped her last night. Then she had to let me go, I do not have any details and dont know what to do. Do I call my lawyer and tell him, or wait and get details.
I know the STBEX is going to accuse me of being a child abuser, I know thats coming, my wife never did anything like that in the past but I must say it dont suprise me.
All my kids are going to talk to the child advocate so what do I do sit on this foe a while. Some one please guide me.

[gr8 day 2B alive]

40,

I would find out the story from your D10.Then approach your L. Nothing will come from confronting W. IMO

Keep being the best dad for your kids. They will know the truth.

[40andsadintexas]

40,

I would find out the story from your D10.Then approach your L. Nothing will come from confronting W. IMO

Keep being the best dad for your kids. They will know the truth.

I will not get any details from D-10 until next week they all left for the Texas Coast this morning, and D-10 did not take her phone.
This just makes me so mad, I am not wanting to start a child abuse war with the STBEX our kids have never been abused, corrected yes, abused no I really don’t want to get this started, I know she is going to accuse me of this because she is telling everyone this is why she filed, not one ounce of truth in it but you know WAW rewrite history.

[40andsadintexas]

Monday night I have tickets to a big huge party to kickoff the start of a trade show, I had originally planned to take a date because it would have been after the trial. Now since I am still not divorced I guess I will give the tickets to the girl I was taking and tell her to have fun. My friends tell me to go have fun, the girls I work with who have been so supportive of me and who remained friends with my wife on facebook allowing me to mine the majority of the dirt I have on the old hag are asking me if I think its very smart taking a date, and my inner self says don't do it nothing good can come from it, and the last thing I need to do is make the girls I work with mad at me so I guess it's no parties for me next week, dang there will be some fun ones in town oh well this same trade show with the same parties will be here in 2 years again.

[pinhead]

Smart drug dealers (oxymoron?) have a saying, "Don't use your biz stash." I think that applies to getting too involved where you work.

[TimeHeals]

Down South we say, "Don't crap where you eat".

If you ain't divorced, don't take a date to a work function. Plain and simple. Some folks frown on those sorts of carryings on.

This ain't rocket surgery.

[soleil]

Don't take a date. Either go by yourself or don't go.

[40andsadintexas]

Soleil I am choosing option # 2. I am just not going to go, my friends that are telling me to go are not the ones in a custody fight. It would have been fun, and I would have taken a date had my divorce happened, but it didn't and I'm not going to lose any sleep over it.

[smith18]

Good choice. There will be plenty opportunities once you are through the legal hurdles.

Just document the slapping and let your L decide what to do about it. Hopefully, the child advocate will hear of this first hand from your daughter.

PS. I used to live in Corpus Christi Texas for a couple years while in the Coast Guard. Good times. You Texans are the friendliest people around.