Is there any hope for us?

[sandi2]

I have some kind of weird problem with my home computer and that's why I have not been able to post. I didn't want you to think I was ignoring you.

As soon as I get my computer fixed, I'll do my best to reply. In the meantime, don't give up. My M made it and yours can also.

[So Ashamed]

Sandi,

Thanks so much for your reply. I don't want to have false hope, but I'm not ready to give up either. I'm dark, staying dark. Not even sure if that applies since I'm the wrong doer, but I'm not contacting him in any way. Not trying to slow down the Divorce. Just trying to be patient and breathe.

[soleil]

SOA, I forgot... did he file yet?

[So Ashamed]

SOA, I forgot... did he file yet?

Yes, he met with the attorney before he dropped the bomb. I was served 6 days after he left.

[bustorama]

Hang in there, So Ashamed. What are you going to do for yourself, today?

[So Ashamed]

Hang in there, So Ashamed. What are you going to do for yourself, today?

Exercise. That's the only good thing I've been able to come up with so far. I'm broke as a joke.

I need some suggestions on goals I can set for myself or things I can do for myself mentally, spiritually and emotionally. Suggestions please?

[pinhead]

Go to the library, read some books. Take a walk. Weed your garden if you have one. Weed someone else's if you don't. Clean the house.

[Coach]

I need some suggestions on goals I can set for myself or things I can do for myself mentally, spiritually and emotionally. Suggestions please?

- learn something new

- revive a hobby

- volunteer

- pray/meditate

- read jokes

- make a list of what you are grateful for

- read

- call a old friend

- smile at someone

[So Ashamed]

Today, I'm fighting with the same question that I can't seem to get over. How do I tell him how sorry I am if he won't speak to me?

[soleil]

Maybe you could write him a letter saying you are sorry and hope he will forgive you one day.

Anyone else--suggestions?