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Well It's time to start a new thread as me and the stbex move to the next step. I have finally awaken the stbex she was served with papers Friday saying that she had to bring D-10 to court on Thursday and all he double hockey sticks broke out. I will post details later when I am at a computer


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M 11 1/2 y
T 13 y
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Friday stbex was served with a supina that D10 had to be in court. The stbex lost it she went on a rant she told D-10 that I was physico and crazy she told D-10 that she didn't like her, they got into major fight. 
The stbex was taking all the kids to the Fort Wort zoo this weekend, but after her and D-10's fight D-10 ended up staying with her friend here in town, but no one told me. She told D-10 that she could not call me, or talk to me. D-10 called me Saturday morning and told me she was in town and that mom said if she talked to me or anything else she would call the cops and have me thrown in jail. 
After that the stbex logged onto D-10's facebook account and wrote" I am having the time of my life at my best friends birthday party thanks mom I love you so much"
I guess she was going to print that and take it to court I don't know. 
I have not talked to my boys she won't let them call me and she told D-10 that she is not going to let any of them talk to me. 
I activated D-10's cell phone yesterday she's keeping it hidden from her mom I will not let her keep me from my kids. 
Any way it sounds like the fight is on and the stbex has just lost it. Crap she was served with papers in June saying I was going for custody I really don't know what the surprise is. 


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M 11 1/2 y
T 13 y
D filed 5-18-10
S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10
Counter sued for d 6-16-10
OM2 discovered 8-10-10
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40,

Sorry it's turning out so pear shaped. And it's got to be hard being kept from your kids. Be strong. Stand your ground, keep your eyes open and let your kids know you love them at every opportunity.

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I'm 4 days away from being divorced I'm going to a girls house tonight and I refuse to feel guilty tomorrow morning, I'm through. Have a good night every one.

Last edited by 40andsadintexas; 10/11/10 02:26 AM.

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M 11 1/2 y
T 13 y
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S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10
Counter sued for d 6-16-10
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I wussed out and didn't do what I went do :-(


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Counter sued for d 6-16-10
OM2 discovered 8-10-10
OM3, OM4
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Nothing new today but I am trying to figure out if your daughter is supinad to to testify in court why in the world would the stbex take it out on her tell her that she don't like her any more then post that fake crap on D-10's facebook. It just makes no sence. I really thought she would kiss her butt and try to turn her on me.


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M 11 1/2 y
T 13 y
D filed 5-18-10
S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10
Counter sued for d 6-16-10
OM2 discovered 8-10-10
OM3, OM4
4 kids 10, 7, & 3
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2 days away from D-Day, D-10 snuck in her room and called me last night and told me that mom took her boyfriend to Fort Worth with the boys this weekend. I talked to S-7 last night first time I have talked to him since last Wednesday his mother made him talk on speaker phone, I cant stand that, good thing I recorded it so the judge can see how she acts.
I called my Lawyer this morning to see about getting S-7 subpoena'd, he's in court today and we are running out of time. She has given me plenty of ammunition I just hope and pray I get to use most of it.
I have felt pretty good but now I am getting nevrous oh I just want to get my kids and get this over with.


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M 11 1/2 y
T 13 y
D filed 5-18-10
S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10
Counter sued for d 6-16-10
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Strength and Honor 40.

You likely won't get everything you want, but you will get access to your children which is more than you have now.

You know, sometimes we work on ourselves because we're the ones that we can change, but sometimes it's just about the other person. I think something flipped in your STBEX's brain and she's just at a different place than her marriage now.

You could have been the old spice guy and she would have still run screaming. That's what she needed to do: run screaming.

You will have access to your kids after DDay and you will have the backing of the people of Texas to enforce it.

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Well its official no D-Day the judge singed the motion for a continuance today, and appointed the child gardian, now back in a holding pattern.
STBEX still has crap behavior she called me and told me that she is taking all of our kids to Corpus this weekend to a wedding that she had spoke to a lawyer and that if I didnt like it I could kiss her ***. I hung up on her, I refuse to have anything to do with her, the sight of her disgust me I cant beleave I ever wanted her back.
Just get this over with already, I guess I should be happy because I filed the motion but still I am so ready to dump her


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M 11 1/2 y
T 13 y
D filed 5-18-10
S 5-29-10 OM1 discovered 6-5-10
Counter sued for d 6-16-10
OM2 discovered 8-10-10
OM3, OM4
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D date 10-14-10
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You have my prayers, 40.

As do your children.


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Rings off-8/16/2010

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