We Fall Down, We Get Up

[BobbiJo]

Seriously, I swear these things only happen to me. Now that I talked to him at the bar and have been nice on the IM, how do I say, "Hey just realized that you were that creeper, buh bye!"

Or do I just do the coward thing and block my IM again? Sheesh....

[BobbiJo]

And....he just asked me the last time I pleasured myself. OK creeper--just going to tell him I am not interested in having those conversations and then I am blocking him. gross.

I have heard it said we attract what we are....but I know I am not desperate, horny, and looking for a hookup!!?? Wtf...

[Kimmie Lee]

It's not cowardly to block a boorish lout.

I swear to God, I have no idea why some men think that kind of sh!t turns us on.

Lame-@ss-social-skills-lacking douche bag!

[BobbiJo]

Call me old-fashioned, call me a prude. I call me, ME!

And if I haven't seen you since high school, I don't think:

*What's your favorite position?

*What's your chest size, looked like 34B

*So do you pleasure yourself? Have you been intimate since your divorce?

Are acceptable comments, all of which he made on IM while I was typing here. Ugh. Ugh. Ugh. Gross.


What happened to getting to know a person, talking about sports, tv, news, whatever, getting to know each other vs having virtual sex? I can call a hotline for that (not that I would)...

OK, the nunnery is starting to look like a viable option. Wonder if they will let me take my kids with me??

[Virtually_Handsome]

(((((BobbiJo))))))
I think saying, "Never mind", and un-friending immediately might be a good plan! YUCK!

[Virtually_Handsome]

Point being, you don't have to explain yourself to him.

[BobbiJo]

Just bummed bc very few men outside these boards are giving me any reason to be optimistic that the good guys are out there!

[Lotus]

i think you did get to know him Bobbi. Sometimes it doesn't take very long.

[Virtually_Handsome]

I think they must be out there, BBJ, but I sure don't know where to tell you to find them.

I just don't get the creeper thing. How can a guy think that could be ok?

[BobbiJo]

i think you did get to know him Bobbi. Sometimes it doesn't take very long.

That is almost profound, it is so true...