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#2085703 10/06/10 11:50 PM
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in the process of divorce, in the process of accepting the life I never wanted, in the process of raising my child alone, in the process of trusting people again.


Had a hard hard hard day! But I know it could have been way worse.


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exH,34
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S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
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met in 2004

newmama #2085707 10/06/10 11:55 PM
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First - I'll have a Black Butte Porter.

smith18 #2085712 10/07/10 12:12 AM
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What happened?


Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11
http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz
http://tiny.cc/thread2
http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu
http://tinyurl.com/thread4
http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6
http://tinyurl.com/thread6
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Sorry you had a bad day


Me29 S3
H left 4/1/09
I file 8/2/10
Divorce final 5/17/11
1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52
2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg
3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89
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Hi NM,

Big hugs!

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Hugs Newmama. I know. But we have to keep up the faith - that better days are ahead. You are young, intelligent and gorgeous - DON'T FORGET THAT!


Me 36; H 40
baby born in May
M:13, T:15
Bomb (OW): Dec 09
began DBing: Feb
WH overseas with OW
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Piano #2085795 10/07/10 03:05 AM
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((((NM))))

Let us know what happened. Hang in there...


Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
Piano #2085810 10/07/10 03:13 AM
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thanks guys!

Kerry-it is great that you have good chemistry with someone but I wasn't kidding about setting you up with ErinGoBragh (what is that Irish saying?). So let me know if you want to see her pic- but you would have to tell me on FB (chatty newmama).

I should know better than to say hard day without elaborating but I was short on time. Nothing about divorce...work.

tomorrow will be better....
match.com--the guy lives an hour away! he loves being in the country and farming...not me!


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exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004

newmama #2086406 10/08/10 12:35 AM
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Hope today was a better day at work for you NM.


New thread: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2112303
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today was a great day at work but stbxh just gave me the divorce papers. Said he was confused about the time line...that he thought it was 90 days after the end of the custody classes but it was 90 days from when I signed in June. So he got a letter that said it would be dismissed unless he took immediate action. So he is going to the courthouse tomorrow to figure it out and had me sign. I didn't cry but I was pissed. My life is sooo hard since he got me pregnant, took my son from me due to his selfish actions and destroyed my trust in people. And I can't tell anyone that I am disappointed because they will think I am nuts. So I don't want to hear it! Life better perk up.


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004

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