Thanks Maria, I will get that then! I dont think there is a 'problem' but it gets a little stressful as we do have to ML regularly for fertility treatment, whether he's in the mood or not !! He's very good though and committed to having kids, so he always rises to the occasion
Its pretty quiet, but I still think of all my friends here... so I wanted to post the news that following our IUI.. I'm pregnant!!
It worked first time, so there were clearly no issues with either of us and maybe if we'd kept trying it may have happened.. but there was no way to tell when and I wasnt getting any younger.
So we are very relieved and I am just a little bit scared now its really happening! I'm only 5 weeks, so its still early days. H is SO happy, he is excited and calm and positive and reassures me every day that we will cope, it will be fine, brilliant and just what we always wanted. He is really looking after me too and doing all the shopping, cleaning and much of the cooking, he is so afraid of me straining myself, he wants me to be safe in this first trimester.
Oh and theres a 1 in 3 chance this is twins!!! We find out in 2 weeks time...
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
Yes.. they over drugged me a little, so I ovulated 3 eggs so there is a 1 in 100 chance its.. TRIPLETS!!! Nightmare. Twins would be ok.. hard, but at least we'd get our family out of the way all in one go! They are doing an early scan at 7 weeks so they can probably tell us then whether its 1, 2, or.... 3 !
I'm very relieved we didnt have to have IVF. I know people do and my BF has an IVF baby, but I wasnt at all comfortable with it and was dreading it. I like the fact it happened naturally inside me as normal. They just gave us a bit of a 'leg up' ! H is very proud and says I must now call him Sir Spermalot
I am so excited and pleased for you! Havent been reading these boards for a little while but had a sudden urge to log on tonight and - WOW!
Things really have come a long way and I'm so very happy for you both. I remember those darker days but look how far you have come! I have never met you but almost feel like I know you and I couldn't be happier for you and what you've achieved. Keep posting with your progress as it'd be great to hear how you're getting on.
Lea xx
Me-26 H-27 T-10 years M-20 months First bomb-Feb 07 Second bomb-March 08
