Another long term relationship bombed

[pookie69]

W texted and said she will have a drink with her boss to discuss new policies in the office.

I responded - I don't want to go out later for dinner so I will cook tonight. The choice is yours.

She responded - I have no idea what I want to eat.

I replied - I did not ask you what you want to eat ;-) I gave you the choice to eat what I make or eat out :-).

She replied - Perfect!!!

My money is on her coming home, eat and thank me for it.

I will be honest and post if it'll be anything different.

[pookie69]

Thanked three times. Twice last night and once this morning.



Have to start working on more excitement.

[soleil]

So what'd you make for dinner?

[pookie69]

So what'd you make for dinner?

Veal Francese.

[pookie69]

The significance of this seemingly insignificant episode is the fact that after the bomb she stopped making dinners. Before I did 100% of shopping and 50% of cooking.

She is an excellent chef and I miss her meals. I stopped everything too as a part of my 180.

Now since we have been going on dinner dates almost every day, I figured that putting a more personal touch on the dinner plate will lure her back to cook sometimes.

I realize that eating out is much more convenient for 2 people and she prefers to cook when we have quests. I also know that she wants to put love into making the meals.

So we'll see.

Just another little element...

[pinhead]

I suggest a picnic dinner, with plenty of sandwiches...

[pookie69]

I suggest a picnic dinner, with plenty of sandwiches...

I'm drooling....

[Coach]

I suggest a picnic dinner, with plenty of sandwiches...

I'm drooling....

make it a goal

it works

[pookie69]

Sharing some witty moments from today.

W decided that today was a texting day. (she was bored)

W: How much do you want to spend on ____'s new baby? (baby shower coming up on Sunday)

Me: I did not know he is selling it already.

W: LMAO. Seriously. I'll chip in $100, you?

Me: Double that bet.

W: Shower is on Sunday at noon.

(No question, no reply.

Hour later.

W: Look up Youtube for _____ video.

I did - it was really funny stuff with dogs.

Me: Ours are funnier. You should have seen them the night I made them act out King Lear.

W: LOL, I missed it didn't I?

Me: Yup.

Hours later.

W: I am still at mom's. Finished painting her living room.

Me: Sorry to hear that. Are you watching it dry? I am having a drink with two gorgeous blonds. (I was not lying)

W: $hit, can you go home for the dogs?

Me: That's not the name I gave the blonds.

W: You are really funny today.

Me: I am funny every day. You just have missed out on the opportunity to see it.

W: LOL

$hit, she just walked in. Gotta go.

[Coach]

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