Is there any hope for us?

[pookie69]

People and animals are sexual beings. And we all express our sexuality differently. We are not amoebas and protozoans. We do not reproduce by asexually.

Knowing Yourself and learning how to love yourself so that you can understand how to love yourself takes precedents.

Know thy self. Find knowledge in that.

For the longest time I wanted to ask.

Do you like Ayn Rand?

[So Ashamed]

Realize, there is nothing to be ashamed of.

I am ashamed. I don't know if I can forgive myself or get past the guilt. I just can't believe that he doesn't want to try to save our marriage. I'm being selfish and I know that. I'm just falling apart.

[So Ashamed]

I'm considering hiring a DB coach. Any suggestions?

[So Ashamed]

Feeling desperate . I'm sure that's not a surprise.

[TimeHeals]

Do you like Ayn Rand?

Now that woman had a twisted marriage and series of adulteress affairs.

[So Ashamed]

^

[pinhead]

I am ashamed. I don't know if I can forgive myself or get past the guilt. I just can't believe that he doesn't want to try to save our marriage. I'm being selfish and I know that. I'm just falling apart.

Use this as motivation to become a better person; to understand yourself better.

Forgiveness can be tough. You can handle it.

[soleil]

SOA, have you looked into IC yet?

I think guilt is a good thing because it reminds you of how massive your cheating was. If you felt no guilt, that would be no good.

[So Ashamed]

SOA, have you looked into IC yet?

I think guilt is a good thing because it reminds you of how massive your cheating was. If you felt no guilt, that would be no good.

I do have a counselor. She just keeps telling me to pick myself up by my boot straps and get on with my life. He made a choice, I'm young and pretty and will love again, blah blah blah. I feel like my life is over. I am spiraling downward in a bad way. I'm scared to death.

[soleil]

Your life isn't over. It only feels that way. You already know your IC is right. Though it's easier said than done, right?