H called me twice last night so I called him back after class. Our conversation was the same sh-t, different day and he asked if it was true I wanted to settle w/ him on the house. Like he has no idea or part of this. He said he took me to court Friday as a "precaution." Nice. (suing me for 1/2 the mortgage).
This morning we spoke again and I said our R is over, I don't wanna talk about it & we should try to come to an agreement. He made me an offer which is way less than what I has asked for so I told him that isn't what I want and he said fine, that we'll be in court for 8 months battling it out that he rescinds his offer completely.
My thinking is that him getting the house and his green card are huge things and he is offering less than half of what I am asking for. Grr.
I am so tired of this.
Sending out the bat signal for CG, since you know more about negotiating than I do. What can I do?
Romeo I watched that youtube. It was funny. And what is the "MsTaken ring?" A fake wedding band? LOL.
Sol... stop the texting. Tell him if he wants to negotiate to talk to your attorney. It's inappropriate for him to be texting you about it. Protect yourself!
When you are happy as an individual, you are in a better position to determine whether a partner enhances your happy life or weighs it down.
Sol... he's not negotiating in good faith, and you know it, so cut it out! He will try to back you into a corner, and then claim you agreed to something.
From now on, any negotiations need to be made in a controlled environment, and a lot more formally than texting. He WILL take advantage of your good nature.
I am very tempted to send this to him... Let me know yes or no?
At this point, please do not call me. We will figure this out in court. It's very clear to me you only wanted me to sign your greencard like everyone told me. We will figure this out in court.
Don't text him anymore. Keep your cards close to your chest but definitely if he sends you more texts and bugs you then a simple txt setting a boundary will do: "H: no more texting or calling. Please communicate through my L"
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
Don't text him anymore. Keep your cards close to your chest but definitely if he sends you more texts and bugs you then a simple txt setting a boundary will do: "H: no more texting or calling. Please communicate through my L"
