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We are going to Hot Springs, AR the weekend of the 24th


Go to the Brau House and see if a band called "The Itinerant Locals" are playing. www.polkayoureyeout

You won't be disappointed.


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Awesome TH!!!! Thank you for all your constructive criticism with my sitch. Been there on a harley ride a few years back, I think I remember the place Coach is talking about.

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How come folks here don't argue with you much when you start trying to get them to refocus their perspective?


I try to make it all about them. Why it's good for them, how it will help and put it in context. Facts and figures are great for debates not for relationships.

After leaving the Air Force (non-emotional career) and getting into the Fin Advisor (money very emotional) business taught me to make my appointments with clients all about them and what they want to talk about. They listen to me when after I listen and understand them.


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TH,
Glad to hear that your sitch is progressing positively.

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Outstanding TH! So awesome that she approached you, wanting to "Do Something" smile The safari sounds like a fun time, even if those pesky critters don't respect personal boundaries! Enjoy Hot Springs...


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Today, I have a date. STBXW and I will work out together, go to brunch, and then attend a local festival that includes "the running of the weenies" (dachsund's racing to raise money for charity), crafts, and so on.

The sun is shining, the sky is clear, there's a cool breeze, and "The Future's So Bright, I Gotta Wear Shades".

Y'all have a good one.


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Good luck TH, have fun on your date smile


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Good luck TH, have fun on your date


Thanks, Darlin' wink I most certainly will... just for you grin


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TH,

Have great day!!!

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Time, how did it go? Sounds like you two feel comfortable together, even having a bit of fun? smile


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