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Right, win-win. wink


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Originally Posted By: gr8 day 2B alive
Hey Puppy,

I though you may have black listed me.



Now why would I do THAT?? confused


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Originally Posted By: gr8 day 2B alive


Say it does happen, what should I be looking for?

My friend asked me this last week- " gr8, what if your W comes to you next week and says she wants to work on M?"


OK, perfect -- so you've had an entire week to think about this then.

So what did you come up with?? confused smirk

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OK, perfect -- so you've had an entire week to think about this then.

So what did you come up with??



I initially said I wouldn't take her back b/c I haven't seen any changes in her. That was the entent of the convo.
I haven't really thought about it since. Never actually thought it would ever happpen.


I heard here that there is a role reversal over time when the LBS be the WAW. There is a shift in power so to speak.

I feel this is happening to me.

I'm not putting the cart ahea of the carriage. So I will think about all possible scenarios for Saturday.

I will know more Saturday afternoon. t
Then I will take all the information in and process it. Then do what's best for me.

Who know maybe she wants to buy me out and going to propose her numbers. I know her grandfather has money s\and she's his only grand daughter.

No worries, everything will be OK for me no matter what happens. Until Saturday............


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gr8, you sound like you've got your head on straight. Remember the Force! Serve you it will...

Just remember your boundaries, your goals, and your kids. Makes the decision really easy.

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Originally Posted By: gr8 day 2B alive


Now that I'm totally over her and the M and have moved on, she now..now wants to stir the pot? WTF?



That is an absolute given. grin grin grin

Who knows what W wants? If I were in your shoes, I'd be prepared to listen 85% and speak 3%. The other 12% can be silence. But, that's just me ...


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Who knows what W wants? If I were in your shoes, I'd be prepared to listen 85% and speak 3%. The other 12% can be silence. But, that's just me ...


Vulc,
I think your speanking percentage is a little high.


Just received a call from my doctor, they said my last appointment was denied.
I know W's work was switching plans and she did say she didn't want to drop me if I didn't have coverage.
So I just texted her to find out if I'm still covered!

I don't think she woud drop me w/o telling me she was going to.

If she did I would have absolutely no respect for her.

Is it Saturday yet?


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Ok

W just called me, yes I said called me, wow.

She updated me with the new insurance infomation and was pleasant on the phone. Who is this women?? haha.

Any way I thank her for the info and said I will be calling her Friday to say happy b-day to son. She said ok.


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Who knows what W wants? If I were in your shoes, I'd be prepared to listen 85% and speak 3%. The other 12% can be silence. But, that's just me ...


Vulc,
I think your speanking percentage is a little high.


Just received a call from my doctor, they said my last appointment was denied.
I know W's work was switching plans and she did say she didn't want to drop me if I didn't have coverage.
So I just texted her to find out if I'm still covered!

I don't think she woud drop me w/o telling me she was going to.

If she did I would have absolutely no respect for her.

Is it Saturday yet?


You're lucky. I'm pretty sure cheating H dropped me off his insurance. Don't even want to call him to ask. Guess I'm going to have to spend 3 days on the phone trying to figure that one out. mad

Yet another rescinded promise from H. (I'll keep you on insurance) Found out last week that insurance isn't covering surgery from 2 mos. ago. Also having problem again, hoping I don't need more surgery. Half tempted to call H, tell him all of this. I only have one asset and H is living in it. That might be incentive for H to rectify the sitch. crazy


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OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09
Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10

still m'd, unsure how to procede

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And ... like I said, be prepared to listen and do very, very little speaking. How's 1%???

I hope you get good news. smile smile smile


M & H: 40
M: 5.5 T: 7.5
OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09
Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10

still m'd, unsure how to procede

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