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Thank you mishka. Trying to stay busy this am. STBXW went to church this am for the 1dt time in a while.

Just keep reminding myself I have to be strong for the kids. Thinking about does stir up a lot of emotions in me, though. Strange that I do not want stbxw anymore but I'm still really angry at her for what she's about to do to our kids. I know the kids will make it through this, but there is nothing that brings out emotion in a parent like hurting their kids. Damn her!!


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I understand GIMA. The protective instincts we have for our kids come out the most when they are being hurt by someone that is also supposed to protect them.

You'll make it through this GIMA. Let us know how it goes. What time are you doing this?


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Sometime between 3-4.


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Hope it went as well as could be expected, gima.


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With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
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<sending prayers and good thoughts your way>


The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.

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Dia!
How are you?!


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Dia, thank you! Its been a crazy couple pof weeks. Have my new place. And I have the kids this weekend!!

Wish my M turned out like yours, but mine is what it is.


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Hey givingitmyall,
Just wanna wish you the best!! WE can all hope for the best outcome for eachother. Have a great time with your kids, as do I when I get my S. Well back to my Midterm good luck Hope





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Best wishes Gima

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Send a prayer up for GIMA today, he is closing on his house today and he is really hurting over his kids.

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