I have been to Benny's and Chickies, I can't believe you've never been to Chickies. The crab fries are good there.
Where do tend at? Maybe I'll stop in for a half and half.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
How does one go about send ing private messages? It is disabled right now.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
I met with a realtor last night to discuss my options.
After reviewing the house and market conditions for my area he gave suggested a selling price for the house which was slightly higher than the appraisal. Makes sense, list higher and expect a lower price, which is right near the appraised value.
My initial numbers I ran a week ago to buy her out seems to be very close to reality. As long as she agrees to it I will be able to stay in my home. I would like to stay for a few reasons. Number one and most important is for the kids. They know their home and have plenty of friends in the neighborhood. And two, I have great neighbors and they support me when I need help. If I sell I don't think I would be able to get the home and neighborhood I have now for the money.
If everything goes according to the plan(fingers crossed)she will accept my offer and move on.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
I just emailed W the numbers pertaining to the house. Since her mom is dropping hte kids off this weekend I won't see her until next week.
I think she may be surprised at the number I offered her. It was completely fair though. I'm not trying to rake her over the coals. I have, and will continue to act fair in all divisions.
I want my kids to feel safe and protected.,
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
I think she may be surprised at the number I offered her. It was completely fair though. I'm not trying to rake her over the coals. I have, and will continue to act fair in all divisions.
I want my kids to feel safe and protected.,
Just my observation: seems like the BS is the one that actually does things fairly. My H kept telling me how generous he was going to be. That was a total crock.
Good luck! Hopefully you and your kids can stay in your house.
M & H: 40 M: 5.5 T: 7.5 OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09 Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10
I think that's part of the psychology an LBS has to cope with. Deep down, we want to be kind and nice in an attempt to curry favor with our WAS. There's nothing wrong with being fair and kind; just be aware of why you're trying to be fair.
Thanks, rnm. I'm not expecting to hear from her for a few days. I did my homework on the numbers and she will have to "ask her people" if my proposal accurate.
No worries here. When you do the right thing you sleep so much better at night.
BTW, the list of places you gave me, I have a funny feeling you my tend at one of them. Am I getting warmer? haha
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
